You'll have to put your personal ambitions on hold. Although this situation is frustrating, it is only temporary. Instead of dwelling on your disappointment, turn your attention to a problem that demands your attention. Filling in the gaps of your knowledge, attending to an ailing relative or trying to overcome an illness should be your first priority. Fortunately, you have an incredible capacity to spring back from setbacks. Have faith in your ability to meet this goal, even if it has been delayed.

Someone who has a substance abuse problem is wreaking havoc with your life. It's time to get some distance from this individual. This makes you feel guilty, but it's actually the healthiest thing you can do. You don't want to condone their habit. You certainly don't want to subject yourself to more stress. If anyone dares criticise your decision to cut off this relationship, stay strong. They obviously don't understand how much pain this friendship is causing. Trust your heart.

Distance yourself from a group that has embraced distasteful beliefs. You don't want to have your reputation tarnished by this association. Several friendships will end as a result of your defection. That's better than ignoring your conscience. In the beginning, you were proud to be part of this organisation. A change in leadership has altered its focus. You have every right to move on. Anyone who tries blocking your path doesn't respect you. That's even more evidence you should leave.

Don't trust the advice of others, especially if they claim to be experts in a particular field. Your best guide is your intuition. Colleagues won't understand the basis for an important decision, but you shouldn't feel compelled to explain it. The only people who deserve to know your rationale are your relatives. Have a heart to heart discussion with your kin. Explain why you were compelled to change direction. You'll work best as part of a team.

A legal matter will not be decided in your favour. Instead of fighting the situation, make peace with it. You have an opportunity to make a fresh start. Make a list of ten things you can do to lead a happier life. Everybody experiences setbacks. It's how you cope with these problems that matters. By showing you can rise above the fray, you'll attract golden opportunities. The problems you faced in the courtroom will soon fade to a distant memory.

A loved one requires a medical procedure. This is very distressing. Try not to let your anxiety spill into your interactions. Being calm, loving and supportive is the best way to help. Find a private outlet for your distress. Writing in a diary, brisk exercise and creative work are all healthy ways to overcome your inhibitions or difficulties. Illness takes a toll on everyone, but the focus should be on the person who is feeling poorly. Everyone else's concerns are secondary.

You're concerned about your other half. Your family isn't treating them fairly and you are caught in the middle. The best thing you can do is stand in their defence. Letting your relatives run roughshod over your personal life will be disastrous. You have a right to make a life with the person who is right for you. If this choice doesn't sit well with your kin, that's too bad. It's healthy to join forces with someone who has a different perspective.

A nasty rumour about you is circulating at work. Instead of trying to defend yourself, keep your nose to the grindstone. Refusing to get drawn into this debate will protect you from further attacks. Eventually, your colleagues will realise this is a tempest in a teapot. If you feel like you've been thrust into a hostile work environment, seek another job. Someone with your abilities will have no problem finding a better position. Turn your back on the shadows and head towards the light.

Arguments involving a child or a loving partner are weighing on your heart. It's important to protect someone who is being hurt by abusive words or behaviour. Giving too much power to a youngster will pave the way to troubles and tantrums in the future. Similarly, giving your amour precedence over a child's needs is wrongheaded. Take a stand. A power struggle will ensue, but that is the only way this problem will be resolved. Trying to be all things to all people just won't work.

Responsibilities to a parent or older family member are limiting your freedom. Stop insisting on doing all this work yourself. Hiring a temporary home health care worker will give you a chance to attend social functions and take the occasional break. You're only human. As such, you need a respite from your labours. You can still be a devoted caretaker while enlisting the aid of a professional. Turn a deaf ear to relatives who criticise your choice. They can't possibly understand the situation.

Unhappy news about a relative will reach your ears. Give yourself time to process your grief. You've always had difficulty getting in touch with your feelings. Being ruled by logic is much easier. Unfortunately, some situations cannot be processed intellectually. Supressing your feelings will only cause them to come out in harsh ways. Protect your loved ones from a prospective outburst. Sit with your emotions. Acknowledge them. This experience could lead to a surprising breakthrough. Being more open and honest with the rest of your family will be possible.

An expensive appliance will break, putting a serious dent in your budget. The last thing you want is to dip into savings to cover this expense, but it can't be helped. Do careful research before buying a replacement item. Make sure it will fit in its designated space. Choose a well made model that has a reputation for longevity. Spend a little extra on a warranty. Into every life a little rain must fall. Hopefully, a rainbow will soon appear after attending to this expensive problem.