Selfish behaviour could work against you in the workplace. Stop insisting you are the only person qualified for a particular job. Your colleagues will resent this attitude, and your boss will think you're being arrogant. Instead, offer to help in any way you can. If you're given an assignment beneath your ability, accept it with good grace. Approach this job with the dedication and intensity that 's made you famous. Being a team player trumps superstardom.

Resist the urge to make an unreasonable sacrifice for a loved one. Someone who has made an unethical choice needs to accept the consequences for their behaviour. Making excuses for their actions will only tarnish your own reputation. Of course, this shouldn't stop you from forgiving your friend, provided they make a sincere apology. Still, forgiveness shouldn't involve a cover up. Let them face the music, and offer emotional support from behind the scenes. If you're asked for a loan, be ready to refuse.

This isn't a good time to mix friendship with romance. If you make a move on a pal, you could undermine the trust and affection holding you together. Cast around for a more appropriate partner. If you already have a lover the two of you may be fighting over a friend. Their constant interference is a real threat to your relationship. It's time to draw firmer boundaries around your romance, lest this outsider tear you apart.

Putting too much emphasis on your career will compromise your personal life. Stop erring on the side of work. Making sacrifices for the sake of a loved one will adjust the imbalance of power in your life. No matter how much you lend verbal assurance to your partner, you need to back up your words with actions. That means turning down an important assignment, taking a personal day, or refusing a promotion are among the possibilities. Do the right thing.

Being brutally honest could backfire on you. No matter what colleagues say they want to be praised for their work so they could take offence at even a little constructive criticism. Therefore, it's best to steer clear of workmates who seek your feedback. You neither want to look like a hypocrite or a liar. Be honest about your lack of experience with regard to a work assignment or you will be caught in a very embarrassing situation. Admit your ignorance.

Revealing someone else's secrets will put you in hot water. Don't get entangled in a gossipy conversation, especially where a former lover is concerned. If your sex life has lost its lustre, you may want to focus on improving your communication skills. The fastest way to your partner's heart is through the ears. Enquire after their hopes, dreams, and fears. Listening intently to their responses will restore the intimacy to your relationship, and could lead to a blissful bedroom encounter.

If a committed relationship isn't as passionate as it once was, hang on in there. Romance takes work. Try mixing things up by being more spontaneous with your lover. Plan a fun getaway which allows your partner to kick back and relax. Try new restaurants together. Be more receptive to the books and movies your amour recommends. With a little work, you could return to the courtship days. Single? This would be a good time to hone your flirting skills.

It may be impossible to be gracious towards a colleague who is so unpleasant. Telling them exactly what you think of their boorish behaviour will result in fireworks. This confrontation has been long overdue. Nastiness is like a terrible disease; until it is treated, it spreads like wildfire. If the problem escalates, you'll have to take this problem to your boss. Don't let emotion get in the way of presenting the hard facts. The calmer you are, the more impact your words have.

A person's constant need for flattery is wearing on your nerves. You're tired of feeding their egotism with praise and reassurance. Instead of letting your anger reach boiling point, sit down with your insecure friend. Have an honest talk about how their behaviour is affecting you. Granted, your comments won't be met with enthusiasm at first. In fact they could take offence at your remarks. In time, though, the wisdom of your words will sink in.

Resist the urge to pull a power play on a female relative. Yes, she is weaker than you, but she also deserves your sympathy. Pushing her into an arrangement she doesn't like will only reflect poorly on you. Exercising compassion will make your home life much more rewarding. It's just a matter of remembering the most powerful leaders don't use brute force to get their way. They use patience and understanding. Lean on friends when your resolve starts to waver.

It's hard to focus right now. There are so many possibilities ahead and you don't want to make the wrong choice. Unfortunately, your indecision could cause you to miss on all of these opportunities. Your best bet is to pour your energy into a vigorous sport. Football, running, or tennis will replace your anxiety with calm. It will be much easier to make good choices when you have a physical outlet. Make an extra effort to tune out self critical voices.

Indulging your material side could put you in jeopardy. Your greatest riches rest in communal ties. The next time you feel lack in your life, summon your friends. Go out for a fun night on the town. Heading out for a pizza or going bowling will keep your spirits up. Pretty soon, you'll remember you get the most pleasure from being around people who love and understand you. A new wardrobe is glamorous, but not very comforting.