Behaving selfishly will undermine close relationships. If you have the power to make important decisions, think about how everyone will be affected by your choices. Occasionally, you'll be able to do something in your own interests that won't offend the group. More often, you should act in ways that benefit the team. When people feel like you have their back, they'll give their very best. Your division will emerge as the most valuable. The full credit will go to you for being a great leader.

Someone is trying to push their beliefs onto you. You're tired of listening to these morality lectures. The sooner you ask them to stop, the happier you will be. You don't have to make an emotional speech; simply explain you're not interested in discussing sensitive subjects like religion, politics and culture. If they ignore your request, feel free to end the relationship. There's no reason to subject yourself to such disrespectful behaviour. The end of the year is the perfect time to streamline your social life.

Problems with your partner's insurance, taxes or income are straining your relationship. You're tired of having to lend them money while they wait for the next payment. Be honest about how this imposition is affecting you. Instead of relying on you to bail them out, they should find a more reliable source of income. Do you share expenses? Rather than dividing bills down the middle, contribute the same percentage of your respective incomes. It's more equitable and doesn't rob anyone of their dignity.

You're tired of playing second banana to your best friend or romantic partner. Start being more assertive. The next time you go to dinner, insist on choosing the restaurant. When you're working on joint projects, take all the plum assignments and leave them with the grunt work. It's perfectly fair to ask for the bigger slice of the cake every now and then. If you encounter opposition, have a heart to heart talk. Explain you are no longer willing to take the back seat all the time.

It's time to get a jump start on your New Year's resolutions, especially regarding health. Don't wait until January to improve your diet or return to the gym. The sooner you start treating your body like a temple, the better you will feel. Christmas put you in the path of continual temptation. Be wary about overindulging in food and drink as 2017 winds down. Enjoy a healthy meal before attending parties and limit your alcohol intake. It will be such a relief to escape the effects of debauchery.

It's tempting to get carried away by romance. Giving your heart to someone you barely know will lead to heartbreak. If you're looking for love, take it slow. Enjoy a few dates before letting down your emotional and physical guard. Do you have a partner? It feels like the spice has gone out of your union. Instead of carrying out a comfortable routine, plan something special together. Go out for a romantic meal, take a minibreak or book a room for two at a quiet little hotel.

A power struggle with a relative is damaging your love life. Although it's admirable you want to be kind to an older person, you should not let them abuse your personal choices. It doesn't matter whether they denigrate your romantic partner or distain your lifestyle. The important thing is to stand up to their abuse. If this angry individual continually ignores the boundaries you've set, cut them loose. Life is too short to subject yourself to abuse. Don't keep looking for other people's approval. Satisfy yourself instead.

Someone will make hurtful remarks. Don't take these comments personally, as they have no validity. You're dealing with a person who is consumed by jealousy. The only way they can get power over you is to deflate your ego. Instead of listening to these nasty remarks, strike back. Tell this pest exactly what you think of their methods. Keep your tone calm and quiet. The sooner your tormentor realises you can't be controlled, the faster they'll slink away. If there's anything a bully can't stand, it's being confronted.

You have a choice between making the best of a bad situation and becoming consumed by hatred. Filing a lawsuit will take you down a dark path. Save your financial and emotional resources and move in. It's completely unfair that a powerful person took advantage of you. Instead of dwelling on the injustice, protect yourself from further abuses. Stop lending money to friends. Never begin work on a job without a signed contract. Above all, listen to your instincts when you meet someone new.

It's difficult for you to conform to your employer's standards. They prefer mediocre work to excellence. Instead of hiding your light under a bushel, seek a more rewarding situation. Interview for jobs at companies that reward performance and innovation. Better yet, think about starting your own business. You've been blessed with remarkable leadership ability. 2018 offers a rare opportunity to build a successful empire. Making far reaching decisions instead of taking orders will be liberating. You have great instincts about what kinds of products and services will be successful.

A secret enemy is impeding your progress. A sarcastic remark you made long ago hit its mark. The victim of your joke has never forgotten it. That's why it's been difficult for you to get a loan, promotion or raise. The only way to remedy this situation is to change your behaviour. Make it your mission to only give supportive feedback. Even when you must criticise someone, you can do it constructively. Drop the attitude. It's not getting you anywhere.

Stop feeling compelled to keep up with affluent friends. Going to expensive restaurants and clubs is putting a dent in your finances. The next time you're invited to an expensive outing, refuse. Be honest about why you're scaling back your social life. You'll be relieved to learn several others share your concerns. Instead of going out to eat, think about hosting a dinner. Stream some movies rather than going to the theatre. You'll have just as much fun at half the expense.