Developing your communication skills will make you more confident in relationships. Right now, you always feel as though you're at a slight disadvantage with your loved ones. That's because you're apt to blurt out your thoughts, while everyone else mulls over their words and while your impulsive nature is one of your most admirable qualities, it can get you into hot water. Learn to think before you speak.

Avoid talking about money in mixed company, as this can create tension. You may be surprised to learn that a neighbour or colleague has got money worries. Beware of showing off any expensive purchases, too, as this can create resentment. If you're feeling creative you could try your hand at writing or taking up a new hobby or interest that will allow you to show off your distinctive flair and talent.

You're not thrilled about scrimping and saving, but learning to economise is educational. The fact is, you can get by very well on your existing income. It's all a matter of preparation. For instance, bringing your lunch to work instead of buying it could help you cut costs. Similarly, limiting your spending to a certain amount each week, rather than spending freely, can help you live within your means.

Stop underestimating your abilities, especially as far as leadership goes. People will respect your authority when you are firm, fair and consistent. Take great pains not to play favourites, as this will fuel a mutiny. If one member of the team is giving you a great deal of trouble, don't single him or her out. Rather, put greater emphasis on the group's efforts. This subtle method could shame this trouble-maker into working harder.

The best way to lift your own spirits is to do good deeds for other people. Joining a charitable organisation, volunteering for a relief effort, or lending your assistance to a neighbour are among the possibilities. Your contribution doesn't have to be grand or showy; in fact, you may prefer working behind the scenes. Keeping busy prevents you from thinking about your troubles. Life doesn't seem nearly so difficult when you're helping those less fortunate than yourself.

False modesty will get you nowhere today; it's important to lay claim to your accomplishments. Submitting your creative work to publishers, agents and network officials is also a good idea. Even if you don't get immediate acceptance, this will help you hone and develop your efforts to a diamond like brilliance. It's better to reach for your dreams than sit back and wonder what might have been. Take one positive step each day for a week.

Working in obscurity can be difficult for you, as you enjoy showcasing your talents but it may be necessary if you're going to acquire some fundamental skills. Remember, you must learn to walk before you can run. Let a stern taskmaster take you under his wing. Although you'll chafe beneath his criticisms at first, you will develop an appreciation for his perfectionism. Keep your nose to the grindstone. Eventually, you'll develop your own style.

It's tempting to abandon your principles for the sake of someone you love, but taking such drastic steps will cause you to lose your self respect. This is too great a price to pay for any relationship. Besides, your affair won't be able to withstand the strain of your guilt and shame. By obeying your conscience, your beloved may develop a grudging respect for you. If that doesn't happen, you're better off going solo.

Pairing up with someone just to enjoy some physical companionship could lead to trouble. Not everyone shares your open-minded view of relationships. Be honest about your needs, and steer clear of clingy types who will say anything to gain favour with you. If you're in a relationship, you may need to treat your partner with more reverence or respect. Otherwise, your union will start to weaken at the seams.

Trust a colleague or close friend to help you through this trying day. You may have bitten off more than you can chew. If that's the case, ask your pal for assistance. Confiding a secret to this person can also come as a relief. When the stress becomes too much to bear, go out for a brisk walk. Moving your body will stir your creative juices. Within a few minutes, you'll feel refreshed and energised.

If you want to realise your creative talents, you'll have to take small, precise steps towards your goals. It isn't realistic to expect overnight success. There's a great deal to be said for enjoying the journey as much as reaching your destination. Get into the habit of performing a ritual designed to draw you closer to your goals. The more you practice your craft, the better you'll get. It's only common sense.

Family members have a way of discouraging your artistic aspirations. That's because they don't want to see you get hurt. What these well-meaning people don't realise is you'd rather be hurt than lead a dull existence. Venture off the beaten path just a little, whether it's taking an art class or joining an amateur theatrical troupe. This will bolster your courage to strike out on your own.