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A preoccupation with distant goals makes you neglect the blessings you currently enjoy. Pause to recognise the people who have helped you get to this point. If you have a chance to return some favours, do so. Neglecting your strongest supporters is the worst mistake you could make. Open your mind to a friend's suggestions. You've been quick to reject this advice, but it really can serve you well. Try a new approach.
It's hard for you to let go of a long-standing grudge, but try anyway. Otherwise, you'll begin to poison yourself with venomous thoughts. Think about all the pain and resentment you've endured by holding on to your anger. By releasing these destructive feelings, you'll be empowered to take a more rewarding path. Give yourself permission to pursue a cherished dream. It's never too late to start afresh.
Differences of opinion threaten to tear a close relationship apart. Whether the two of you disagree about politics or religion is immaterial. The important thing is to respect one another. If you are being gracious and your partner is not, you may want to enforce a separation. Otherwise, your mate will continue to engage in their insulting behaviour. Standing up for yourself will set an important precedent in your relationship. Don't be anyone's doormat.
It's more important to get as much work done as possible than perfect a single project. Authority figures are depending on you to come through for them. You'll stall the whole works by dawdling over insignificant details. Take a page from a respected mentor by doing the best you can, even if it means slapping together certain elements at the last minute. The results will be more impressive than you think.
Being critical of a child or lover has the opposite effect you intended. While you're concerned that this person doesn't make themselves vulnerable to others, it doesn't give you the right to discourage their dreams. Whether you like it or not, your beloved will have to take risks for the sake of something bigger. Mistakes will be made along the way. It is your job to provide the unconditional love they need to continue.
It's nearly impossible to see eye-to-eye with relatives, but try anyway. Certain family members don't approve of the way you conduct your personal life and while there may be no reason for their concern, you have to consider whether you've brought these problems on yourself. Make more of an effort to keep your romantic life private. Stop discussing the details with all and sundry; this is nobody's business but your own.
Don't take anything people say at face value, especially with regard to gossip. There's more to a situation than meets the eye. By giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, you'll save yourself a lot of grief. If you're at a loss for something to do, clean out your files. Purge any old papers. This process of distillation will help you stay focused on what is important. Rid your life of physical and emotional junk.
You may want to reconsider what you truly value in life, especially with regard to hobbies. Certain activities don't provide the thrill they once did. You may want to venture into new territory. Whether this means taking a course, reading up on a new subject, or fooling around with an unfamiliar medium is up to you. The important thing is to allow yourself to explore and create without judgement. It's play time!
You're thinking clearly, but the rest of your family isn't, which causes problems. It's tempting to head for the nearest exit whenever emotional outbursts occur. If you remain patient and talk things through, you'll be able to resolve certain issues that have been plaguing your household for months. Let people express themselves freely, even if they're not making much sense. Emotions are illogical.
It seems like everybody is out to get you, but this perception is wrong. Actually, you are being your own worst enemy by giving in to your fears. Fitting in has always been important to you. Therefore, it's only natural to feel nervous when venturing into an unfamiliar environment. How can you possibly conform when you don't know what is expected of you? Relax. Stop worrying about everyone else and have a good time.
Going along with the crowd isn't the smartest move right now. That's because people are embracing ideas that are ultimately harmful. Obey your conscience, even if it means becoming alienated from your associates. You've always been an independent sort, so it's not too hard to go it alone. Still, you'll be relieved when a few people see reason and decide to throw their support you way. In the meantime, stay strong.
Acquiring money and status won't bring the respect you crave. The only way you can do that is by living your dreams. You've always worn your heart on your sleeve, and it's obvious your present situation isn't making you happy. Don't be afraid to make a fresh start, even if it means leaving your old life behind. Stuffy types will accuse you of throwing away a golden opportunity, but true friends will applaud this move.