You're tied to the old way of doing things, even though these methods may be outdated. Create an opportunity to learn and grow. It's easy to resent those who pick up new skills or hone their raw talents with ease. However, if you befriend these people, they will be more eager to show you the ropes. Never fear, your melancholy mood is only temporary. Who says you can't have growing pains when you're an adult?

It's important to use your financial resources wisely if you're going to enjoy some leisure time. Beware of spending money on frivolous things that will rob you of a needed break when you really want it. Perhaps you are subconsciously undermining your plans. If you take some time off, you will have to relegate responsibilities to others. Don't worry; this won't be grounds for replacement. You put your own special mark on all that you do.

No-one has the power to change the past, so why linger over what went wrong? What you fail to realise is that these unhappy events have made way for many of the blessings you currently enjoy. Your frustration may be creating problems in a relationship. Put the past behind you and make plans for the future together. It's the best thing you can do for yourself, as well as your other half. Join hands and move forward.

Hiding in the shadows allows you to watch somebody else unobserved. At some point you must reveal yourself to the person in question. Although you don't like wearing your heart on your sleeve, it's agony for you to keep your feelings buried. Invite the object of your admiration or even desire somewhere that feels cosy and familiar to you. It's easier to be "the real you" when you're confident of your surroundings. Take a risk.

Making the most of your income will be difficult if you don't create a budget. Too often, you squander your resources on big group outings and leave nothing for yourself. Begin to turn down invitations and spend more time at home. You may be surprised to discover how much you really enjoy domestic life. Family gatherings will be especially rewarding now. Use this new month to spend some quality time with children.

You're feeling pressurised to change both your private and personal lives. Stop and consider whether people's criticisms are valid. Perhaps you're taking an unnecessarily rigid approach to work and relationships or maybe you're too demanding of the people around you? Your quest for perfection probably comes from fear of being judged. Ironically, you act out this inner issue by judging others. It's time to break this pedantic cycle today.

Be careful or an overactive imagination can lead you down the wrong path. Don't assume you know everything about a particular subject. By keeping your eyes and ears open, you will pick up valuable information to stand you in good stead. It's possible that you don't respect the people who are trying to enlighten you. It is wise to remember that you can't always judge by appearances. Allow your gaze go a little deeper and you'll see a Fairy Godmother or father!

You don't want to be obligated to anyone, but like it or not remaining ties exist. Rather than curse your situation, try to cope with it the best you can. Otherwise, you'll remain focused on your condition and it will appear that much more restrictive. It's strange, because you usually like being intricately involved with somebody else. One reason you're so uncomfortable now is that you're not calling the shots. You can't win 'em all!

People's expectations of you are very high, which can cause lots of stress. Look at it this way: at least your talents have given you a superlative reputation. If everybody seems to be closing in, you can tell them to back off a wee bit. This won't seem like an insult when it comes from a frank but friendly person like you. Everybody needs breathing space from time to time, even more so a free spirit like you!

You don't feel the world is utilising your talents properly, and are coming to resent it. Try to take an objective view of the situation. The fact is, you may have outgrown your current position, and need to move to greener pastures. Instead of waiting for others to recognise your true worth, go out and sell yourself. The feedback you get will tend to boost your ego or draw attention to the areas that need developing. Either way, you win.

Your sexual desires are getting in the way of your relationships. It's hard to focus on others when you feel passionately pent-up and unfulfilled. At times like these, you have to ask why you are depriving yourself of pleasure? Sometimes you focus so much on your intellect that you forget your body exists. Go out of your way to revel in sensual delights. You'll be surprised at how powerfully you respond to physical stimulation.

It's hard to enjoy an intimate relationship when everybody else keeps butting in! This is one of those times when you'll have to assert strong personal boundaries in order to find happiness. Usually, you're content to melt in with the crowd. At the moment, however, you need to carve out some time and space for yourself, to the exclusion of everybody but your special partner. There are some things that are too precious to share.