Give some space to the object of your affection. Monitoring their every move and bombarding them with messages will drive them away. If you are meant to be a couple, they'll slowly gravitate towards you. If not, you'll meet someone who appreciates you. Litigation over shared resources can darken your outlook. Do your best not to fall victim to pessimism. While it's true someone has been behaving in a scandalous manner, most people are kind, trustworthy and caring, just like you.

Don't feel pressured to host a party. You're usually happy to have people over to your place, but that's not the situation now. Recovering from an illness is taking up most of your time. Let someone else entertain the group. Your best friend or romantic partner is experiencing a great deal of pressure. Instead of contributing to their troubles, be kind and supportive. Whenever you're tempted to tease or criticise, offer encouragement instead. Your caring attitude will be greatly appreciated.

Travel delays and technological breakdowns will be frustrating. Instead of insisting on carrying out a plan, be flexible. Cancel a meeting, ask for a deadline to be extended or rearrange a trip. There's no point in beating your head against a brick wall. A sanctimonious attitude towards work will backfire. Rather than disparaging a colleague's performance, focus on your own responsibilities. The only person's behaviour you can control is your own. Improving your own performance will take you further than acting superior.

There are details to a financial deal that aren't obvious. Before signing on the dotted line, ask a few pointed questions. If you get evasive answers, you'll know this is a bad arrangement. Walk away. A better opportunity will become available almost immediately. This is not a good time to take an emotional risk. Someone who has been toying with your emotions will show their true colours. Don't boost their ego by confessing a crush or sharing embarrassing information. Protect your heart.

Overanalysing a situation will make you unpopular. People don't want to waste valuable time weighing pros and cons; they just want to have fun. Rather than pointing out potential pitfalls, keep an open mind. Be willing to go on an impromptu outing. Heavy household expenses are draining your financial security. It's time to put yourself on a budget. Treat shopping for discounts like a game. A little research will result in big savings for your family.

Dwelling on past disappointments is impeding your progress. Stop giving away your power to a relative or neighbour who took advantage of you. Pour your energy into a spiritual pursuit that cultivates contentment. Slowly but surely, you'll emerge from your cocoon as a magnificent butterfly. Double check the email address or phone number before sending a message. The last thing you want is to reveal confidential information to an unintended recipient. Keep your voice low when discussing personal matters, too.

A friend who is always insulting you has worn down your resistance. Although they possess some good qualities, you're no longer willing to endure this pest's abuse. End your relationship quickly and decisively. Other members of your social circle will congratulate your move. Avoid putting too much work on your plate. You're extremely capable but you only have one pair of hands. You'll need more time than expected to recover from a demanding project. Remember this before accepting another assignment as soon you complete this one.

Resist the temptation to lord your accomplishments over others. Someone who is just getting started may not understand just how important you are. Don't let that bother you. Instead, seek to fill in the gaps of their practical knowledge. Teach them practical skills. Beware of exaggerating a problem. Making mountains out of molehills will undermine your credibility. If you detect a mistake, correct it as quickly and efficiently as possible. It isn't necessary to draw attention to this minor issue.

Usually, you have no problem being spontaneous. A recent disappointment has made you more cautious than normal. Don't get too caught up in unimportant details. If you're invited on a trip, accept immediately. You can always arrange for childcare or a dog sitter later. Resist the temptation to feel sorry for yourself. Although you've experienced some setbacks, you're in a much better situation than most others. Show your gratitude for the many blessings you enjoy, but often take for granted.

Being cheap will create more problems than solutions. If a loved one wants money, don't be quick to turn down their request. Releasing these resources will make their life easier. It will also dissolve some of the resentment that has developed between you. Don't neglect responsibilities to friends. If you promised to help someone move, show up with a cheerful attitude. Making lame excuses to avoid this duty will put your loved one in a terrible situation. Treat others as you want to be treated.

Your insistence on going your own way is hurting a relationship. Letting your romantic or business partner do things on your behalf is important. They may not perform these tasks to your satisfaction, but show your gratitude, anyway. This will strengthen your bond. Hypocrisy will make you vulnerable. Don't impose rules on others that you do not follow. If someone is engaging in unpleasant behaviour that feels familiar, stop what you're doing. Vow to make a change. Holding yourself to a higher standard will improve all your relationships.

Beware of bullying colleagues. If you're going to be successful, you will need the help of fellow workers. That means giving more praise than criticism. When people feel like they are supported and appreciated, they'll give you their best. Try it and see. Extreme beliefs are driving a wedge between you and loved ones. Resist the temptation to discuss politics and culture with friends and family. You're perfectly welcome to your opinions, but nobody wants to be converted. Discuss these matters with like-minded people.