You're highly impatient to see the results of a personal improvement programme. Don't give up hope when you don't experience an immediate change. When it comes to undergoing a transformation, slow and steady wins the race. Give yourself constant encouragement. Beware of continually appeasing an emotionally immature person. You shouldn't have to drop everything to attend to their fragile ego. The sooner they learn to cope, the happier everyone will be. You'll have much more respect for this individual when they become self-sufficient.

Resist the temptation to escape an unpleasant reality. The sooner you face the facts, the faster you will overcome an annoying difficulty. If you're struggling with a hospital, government agency or university, it may be necessary to hire a lawyer. Don't place so much emphasis on your image when it comes to work. Being productive is more important than having a polished appearance. Roll up your sleeves and get your hands dirty. The hours will fly when you're busy.

A loved one thinks you're being cold. An insistence on valuing facts over feelings makes them feel dismissed. The next time your friend tries to discuss their frustrations, listen attentively. Instead of rationalising, try empathising. Your relationship will undergo a great improvement. Resist the temptation to spend all your time with a romantic partner. A friend or relative deserves your company, too. Rearrange your schedule to reflect your priorities. Don't insist on bringing your partner everywhere you go, either.

Being too practical is undermining your happiness. If you're unhappy with your job, it's important to listen to your feelings. Life is too short to stay in a miserable situation, even for a paycheque. Formulate a strategy for doing work that you love. Your family believes you can do anything, but you don't share their confidence. If you want to get a fair assessment of your talent, ask an objective professional. Brace yourself for some painful feedback. Treat this feedback as a blueprint for improvement.

Beware of lording your knowledge over others. You don't want to turn people off to learning. By gently encouraging people to expand their education, you'll make friends and be a force for growth. Don't be surprised when people start treating you like a role model. Someone who heaps you with compliments has an ulterior motive. Instead of genuinely admiring your style, they really want a favour. You've always been vulnerable to flattery. Don't let this manipulator take advantage of your generosity.

Don't pry into other people's business. By showing respect for a newcomer's privacy, you'll pave the way to a strong friendship. You're dealing with someone who is distrustful of others. It will take time to earn their trust. Be patient; you're meant for each other. Harbouring a secret is causing great pain. Don't give a cover story for someone who is involved in an affair. You'll harm innocent people who deserve to know the truth. When in doubt, obey your conscience.

It's important to make a choice. Continually weighing your options is making a difficult situation worse. When in doubt, flip a coin. The sooner you act, the easier it will be to find a more rewarding path. Have faith in your survival skills. You'll be accused of being self-centred when pursuing your desires. Don't let someone lay a guilt trip on you for being assertive. Too often, you give way to pushy, inconsiderate people. Don't make that mistake now, when happiness is within reach.

Being overly critical will turn potential friends into enemies. When asked for feedback, offer one piece of constructive feedback, along with a sincere compliment. This will be helpful, rather than devastating. Your popularity will soar when people feel supported by you. Resist the temptation to feel sorry for yourself when you hear disappointing news. After allowing yourself to grieve, pick yourself up and make a new plan. You'll find new options when you look for them. Setbacks are really course corrections.

Don't let snobbery enter a decision. Just because someone has an engaging appearance doesn't mean they will do a good job. When assigning work, look at a person's previous accomplishments. This will tell you everything you need to know about their capabilities. Someone will try befriending you for selfish reasons. Keep this individual at arm's length. You don't want to feel a sense of obligation to a manipulator like this. Stick close to those who have stuck by you in both good and bad times.

You're moodier than usual. It's hard to view a family problem objectively. Watching a relative suffer has changed your outlook. If you want to gain something positive from this situation, get involved with a humanitarian cause. Let your sadness be a springboard to good works. Substance trumps style at work. If you must make a presentation, rely on trustworthy facts and figures instead of captivating images. Instead of drawing attention to your appearance, highlight the points you want to make.

Spreading gossip isn't worth the temporary thrill. It's better to maintain a discreet silence when people are speculating about a newcomer. By establishing yourself as someone who doesn't engage in hurtful discussions, you'll earn the respect of similarly principled individuals. You don't appreciate being forced to take orders from an annoying expert. While you don't appreciate their style, you must admit they have all the experience necessary. Put aside your personal feelings for the sake of learning.

An unwillingness to accept change will cause you to miss a moneymaking opportunity. When faced with a transition, greet it with open arms. Your upbeat attitude will be rewarded with a plum assignment. Being flexible allows you to thrive in situations that intimidate others. This isn't a good time to run up debts. Conserving your resources will allow you to cover an emergency expense. Not having to worry about money will allow you to come to terms with an unexpected change.