You won't be able to get the privacy you want. Neighbours and relatives keep asking nosy questions. No matter how hard you try to push them away, they'll continue with the questioning. This is a sign you must establish healthier and clearer boundaries. Stop being at everyone's beck and call. Wait a few days before responding to requests. It will take time to train everyone to become more patient, but the results will be worth it. Be less forthcoming with personal details, too.

Friends are placing too many demands on you. This is causing problems with your finances. You can't afford to go out all the time. If you want to see your loved ones, throw a bring a bottle party at your home. Invite everyone to bring a special dish. This will be a less expensive way of enjoying yourself. You can also host a movie night. Rotate the location among your nearest and dearest, so all the preparations won't fall on your shoulders.

You could be passed over for a raise or promotion. This is really disappointing and frustrating, as you thought you were on your way up the ladder of success. The problem is there simply aren't the resources to reward the best people in the organisation so it may be time to look around for a position elsewhere. Alternatively, you can launch a creative project that affords satisfaction outside of work. If you play your cards right, you could sell your work to a publisher, gallery, or boutique.

Beware of someone with a mysterious background. There's a reason this newcomer is evasive about their past. If you do a little digging, you'll discover some unpleasant information. Even if you don't, you should obey your instincts and stay far away. A nurturing person like you often attracts opportunists. By learning to tell the difference between good friends and manipulators, you'll save yourself a lot of heartache. In the end, people reveal their true character through deeds, not words.

An admirer may have mercenary motives. Beware of someone who expects expensive gifts as tributes. Although you have a deep appreciation for luxury, you want to be loved for who you are, not what you can buy. If someone has failed to pay back a loan, you might have to take legal action. It's sad to let money get in the way of a friendship, but it can't be helped. You work hard for your money and resent it when people don't respect that.

Resist the urge to get involved with a prominent executive. You won't appreciate the glare of the spotlight. Besides, you hate having to project a false image to impress your lover's clients and customers. You've always prided yourself on being a sincere, no nonsense person. If your amour can't appreciate these fine qualities, you're better off going solo. Are you already in a committed relationship? You may be called upon to comfort your partner. Be ready to lend a sympathetic ear.

Getting emotionally attached to work is a mistake. Jobs come and go and you must be ready to go wherever the best opportunities are. If you've outgrown a fun position, push yourself to get a promotion. Are you unemployed? It's possible you are not pushing yourself hard enough to find a position. The thought of being weighed down with a permanent job isn't appealing, but it's better than sinking further into debt. Bite the bullet and send out your applications.

You've got love on the brain, but it will get you into trouble. It's more important to focus on finances. Your bank account is running dangerously low. Finding an alternate source of income is important. At the very least, it would be wise to take out an insurance policy. You've worked too hard to lose all of your belongings as the result of an unfortunate accident. The more protection you have, the easier it will be to find the sort of lover you require to be happy.

Sometimes you rely too much on your family for guidance. If you want to embark on a romance, don't wait for your relatives to approve of your partner. Just follow your heart. If one of your family members expresses disapproval over your choice, tell them to keep their nose out of your business. You don't care if your lover shares your religious or cultural beliefs. In fact, you enjoy teaming up with someone who challenges your assumptions. It gives a relationship a welcome dash of spice.

You want to devote all of your time and energy to a hobby. Unfortunately, the demands of work simply won't allow it. You have a lot of responsibility and if you don't attend to it, your colleagues will be angry. Take a deep breath and fulfil your duties as quickly as possible. If you stay focused, you will be able to finish early and do as you please. Plus, your diligent attitude will impress your boss and result in a promotion.

Beware of spending beyond your means. Buying a lot of expensive luxuries will put you in a precarious position. You should have a certain amount of cash in reserve to take care of last minute emergencies. If you want a status symbol, create a fund for it. By the time you have enough saved up, you may not even want this item anymore. This will leave you with an even bigger nest egg. Use it for a deposit on a car, home, or anything that affords long term security.

Flattery will get you nowhere. A relative doesn't care how you cute you are; they just want you to pitch in with chores. Stop pretending you are too busy to cook, clean and shop. The sooner you roll up your sleeves and do your part, the happier your home life will be. If you're not very good at a particular job, you will improve with practice. Give yourself permission to make mistakes in the beginning. Eventually, you'll be glad you pushed yourself to acquire these skills.