An obsession with routine could be making you miserable. It doesn't matter if it's work, exercise, or diet. You need to vary your course, if only for some intellectual stimulation. The results may displease your boss, who has become used to your being like a workhorse. Ultimately you'll become much more productive when you weave a little variety into your life. If you're trying to decide whether to take an all consuming job, you may want to wait for a less demanding opportunity.

Treating a romantic partner like a child will take a toll on your relationship. If they are irresponsible, you need to let them live with the consequences of their actions. Taking on their duties will make you angry and them neglectful. Perhaps it's time to get some counselling. Talking to a professional will give you both some insight to the source of your problems. You'll also devise strategies for building a strong bond. It's time to deal with each other as equals.

A pessimistic outlook is driving happiness from your door. When you expect the worst all the time, that's exactly what you'll attract. You've experienced a string of disappointments in the recent past that are bound to affect your mood, but when you focus on setbacks, they become a self fulfilling prophecy. Practice the power of positive thinking, if only for a few minutes each day. Soon the dark cloud that's over your head will start to lift.

Although there may have been flaws in your education, you can no longer blame your shortcomings on your teachers. Now you're an adult, you need to fill in the gaps holding you back from a success. If that means taking a remedial class, so be it. On the plus side, you will have your pick of instructors. Look for someone who makes you feel comfortable. It's easier to acquire knowledge when you're relaxed. Don't worry; you will overcome this obstacle in no time flat.

The harder you work, the more elusive financial security seems. Maybe it's because you're putting too much emphasis on earning money. By giving away a certain percentage of your resources, you won't feel so constricted. Soon, wealth in the form of gifts, time, and generous deeds will come your way. It won't be nearly as difficult to achieve your goals. When you want something done, friends will come to your aid. Remember, your bank balance isn't a reflection of your worth.

Personal obligations are creating conflict in a relationship. It's hard to relax and enjoy your time with a loved one because you're so worried about dropping the ball. It doesn't help with your creative energies being stifled, either. At this point, you need to make some changes. Divest yourself of some of your responsibilities, even if it means displeasing your boss. You've gone above and beyond the call of duty when it comes to work. Now it's time to cut back your schedule.

When confronted with trouble, your first instinct is to bury your head in the sand. It's not because you're a coward; it's just you have been forced to cope with so many unpleasant circumstances lately. Home life has been especially difficult. An oppressive relative has been imposing his will on you, forcing you to put your needs aside for theirs. Put an end to this situation. If you keep giving way to this man's will, resentment will build to an intolerable point.

You're having difficulty loosening up with certain friends. At some level, you fear they think you are frivolous. Perhaps you are, but it's perfectly all right. In fact, this is probably the quality your loved ones enjoy about you. Bringing a measure of levity to their lives accounts for your popularity. A relative or neighbour may not be so fond of your flippant remarks, and could take you to task for them. Your challenge is to adjust your humour to fit your audience.

You've been preoccupied with work lately, which has driven a wedge between you and your family. Relatives feel like they hold little interest for you, mostly because you're always fielding calls from the office or plotting your next professional move. You need to draw a firmer boundary between your public and private lives. When you're home, focus on your loved ones. Enquire after their interests and concerns. Ban the subject of work from your conversation.

It's hard for you to make a meaningful connection with somebody who is very narrow minded. You're sick and tired of listening to ignorant remarks about various races, religions, and creeds. You need to make your feelings crystal clear or they'll continue on their ridiculous rants. It's possible you will be accused of being politically correct, but honestly, this is just a lame defence for bad behaviour. You shouldn't have to apologise for demanding decency from others.

Obsessive thinking is making you miserable. It's hard to break your fixation on someone close. The more they ignore you, the greater your passion becomes. At long last, your aloof attitude has caught up with you. In the past, your cool demeanour has made you a hot commodity on the romance market. Now someone is giving you the same treatment, you can't handle it. Maybe this will teach you to be more open about your feelings.

You're reluctant to make a commitment, whether it's personal or professional. Being on your own allows you a great deal of freedom. Let's face it: you've never been fond of taking orders. Clinging stubbornly to your independence could be cutting you off from some golden opportunities. Consider whether your would be partner could actually alleviate some stress from your life. Besides, the two of you work very well together. Maybe it's worth the sacrifice.