It's inexcusable if someone ignores you, lies to you or treats you with a lack of respect in front of others. Accuse them of behaving badly and they will try to blame their behaviour on ignorance, they did not see you so that's why they appeared to be ignoring you. Or they truly believed information they were giving you at the time was true. If you have plenty of proof to suggest otherwise, don't let them get away with it or they will let you down again.

Your job is putting too many demands on your time. Even when you aren't at work you might be dealing with career matters in your home. Your boss depends on your advice and constant support but when did reassurance turn into reliance? Those in senior positions should be encouraged to get on with some jobs without you. Make yourself scarce and this will force them to think for themselves. Stick to no nonsense financial and business arrangements.

Make a start on those jobs you have been continually putting off. They aren't going to fix themselves. Once you've got these out of the way you will feel more relaxed and as if a great burden has been lifted. If you and a partner aren't communicating well and both of you acknowledge this, find ways to get on the same mental wavelength. Your first task could be to tear yourselves away from other distractions long enough to have a decent conversation.

Once others stop fighting against the need for change, putting new plans in action will be less stressful. You can see why it's necessary to alter routines or regular arrangements that aren't working as well as they used to do. Just a few minor changes will help life run smoothly once again. That's why you won't give up until these have been implemented. Eventually others will come around to your way of thinking.

You may not remember something a friend or loved one is trying to remind you about. The experience obviously had more impact on them as they recall the event vividly while you have a vague notion of having been there but little else. This trip down Memory Lane could inspire you to hunt out old photograph albums or contact older relatives with the questions that are on your mind. It may even get you thinking about researching your family history.

You may not share the same views but you can still put effort into a relationship and make it work. Respecting each other's opinions will go a long way towards keeping the atmosphere calm and avoiding conflict. If on the other hand you feel you aren't getting anywhere very fast and someone is holding you back, it might be best to agree to disagree and go your separate ways. Don't be too quick to co-sign agreements you aren't sure about.

If a relationship is good eighty per cent of the time; it is unlikely the remainder will cause any major problems. You may be going through a difficult patch but you can get through this together. There will be times when you find yourselves arguing over nothing. This is because one or both of you is feeling stressed and anxious. You might wish the petty arguments would stop and eventually they will.

You've been under too much pressure recently but this will eventually ease. Tense situations have a negative effect on your mood, making you less excited about new prospects. Emotions are flat when, in different circumstances, you would have felt elated, even, with some of what is going on. Once you have dealt with the issues causing you most concern you will be more able to let down your barriers and relax.

It is irresponsible of someone to reveal secrets they knew would cause arguments and even chaos. A group of friends have always been close but that does not give anyone license to disclose information given in confidence. Something happens that gives you a glimpse of a side to a person you hadn't seen before. All you can do is make some internal adjustments to make sure you aren't taken in by their false friendliness again.

Don't let anyone make you feel guilty or ashamed about something that was not your fault. If you put your trust in the wrong person, you can't be blamed for having been deceived by them. Why should you be punished for something you were completely innocent of? Whatever way you choose to handle this misunderstanding, you need to get a partner or work colleague to understand their accusations are unfounded. If they can accept this, there is a stronger chance of sorting it all out.

If you are to convince someone of something, they need to see you are serious about your intentions. If, for instance, you've taken too light hearted a view towards important issues in the past, prove you will be more committed in the future. If you've made your social life a priority and have neglected a close relationship, show you will make changes in the way you behave if that's what's needed to keep you together.

You sense someone feels trapped by commitments they can't yet get out of. What they don't realise is you are feeling restricted too. Not only have you got your usual responsibilities but you feel obliged to try to make life easier for others, just to keep them happy. This is not the best solution to your problems. For you to be happy you need to see a future together where they are willing to take joint responsibility and not rely on you so heavily.