You may be overconfident regarding your prospects with someone sexy. Although the person in question is attracted, he or she won't stick around for mind games. You'll have to make a serious commitment if you're going to move forward with this relationship. If you already have a lover, don't make the mistake of repeating bedroom secrets to friends. That would be a huge betrayal. If you have concerns about your love life, talk to a couple's counsellor about them.

It's important to face the harsh realities of a family situation. You may have to curtail career plans in order to care for a sick relative. Alternatively, you may have to move in with relatives until you get a steady job. If this is the case, you need to be realistic about finding work. Instead of setting your sights on an ideal position, be willing to take a job that covers the bills. That way, you will take the pressure off your relatives.

Beware of getting sucked into a fashionable group. This organisation is not what it seems. It's possible the person in charge is taking advantage of its members. Although the prospect of rubbing elbows with such glamorous figures is exciting, it could also put you in danger. Continue to go your own way, even at the risk of being snubbed by some popular people. In time, they'll wish they had followed your example.

Don't reveal sensitive information to a new friend, you haven't known them long enough to make any confidences. By keeping your own counsel, you'll protect yourself from embarrassment. Paying off a debt will be more difficult than you anticipated. Instead of avoiding your creditor, make contact. Try to work out an alternate arrangement that satisfies both parties. When you demonstrate good faith, people and organisations will bend over backwards to work with you.

Harbouring unrealistic expectations about romance will land you in hot water. Instead of sacrificing your own happiness for somebody else, hammer out a compromise or your partner will feel uncomfortable. Nothing takes the spice out of a love affair like martyrdom. If you're single, it may be because you keep putting people on pedestals, thereby setting them up for failure. Try being a little more balanced. At the very least, accept the fact that nobody is perfect.

Make no mistake: your employer will replace you if you keep acting up. While your skills are admirable, they aren't worth the pain and aggravation you've been creating. Focus on becoming a team player, even if it means having to accept a difficult schedule or assume unpleasant duties. These days, it's difficult to find steady work. You can't take such a blessing for granted. If you're unemployed, apply for positions at a government agency or charitable organisation.

This isn't a good time to take changes, romantic or financial. If you've developed a crush on somebody, stay silent. You may soon discover they are involved in a serious relationship or they have disturbing qualities which alter your feelings. If a friend asks you to invest in a business or stock, be ready with a polite refusal. You can't afford to sink your hard earned cash into a questionable endeavour.

Putting too much emphasis on your appearance may be your way of avoiding unpleasant feelings. Sure, you look great to outsiders who don't know you very well, but friends and family know there is trouble brewing beneath your flawless appearance. Be honest about your feelings, even if it means making yourself vulnerable to someone you want to impress. The sooner you drop the act, the quicker you will heal.

Don't make promises you can't keep. Although you'd love to help someone who is close to your heart, you simply don't have the time or resources. Be honest about your situation, or you'll end up giving your friend false hopes. A relative or neighbour will say one thing to your face, and another behind your back. Be ready to question her on this treachery or your relationship will always feel false and strained.

You need to put yourself on a budget in order to meet all of your financial obligations. This may involve cutting out extras and making existing resources stretch further. The secret to your success is setting deadlines. If you continue to pay bills off in steady increments, you'll achieve the financial freedom you've always desired. Start now, while you feel inspired. Taking the first step is always a challenge. Once you get started the sacrifices you make will seem relatively minor.

Although your idealism is admirable, it is misplaced today. Someone who is not worthy of your trust will ask you for money, a favour or both. Agreeing to her demands will put you in a bad position. If this woman truly cares for you, she'll still be your friend whether you decide to help her or not. Don't be surprised if she drops out of sight after turning her down. She's an opportunist, sadly enough.

Beware of overdoing it with food and drink, or you could generate some nasty gossip. As sad as it sounds, people are very judgmental. If you're perceived as being greedy or irresponsible, stories will make the rounds. You're better off exercising moderation and leaving a social gathering early. That way, you won't harm your reputation and you'll wake up tomorrow feeling refreshed. Don't worry you'll soon have a chance to relax and unwind with your real friends.