You disapprove of a friend who doesn't stand on their own. Their reliance on their romantic partner makes you nervous. You have no intention of ever having such an intense alliance. Stop being judgmental. What you need to thrive is different. That's fine. Beware of putting too much emphasis on your career. While it's nice to get paid well for your contributions, there is more to you than your job title. Spending more time on art, music and beauty will help you avoid burnout.

Don't jump to conclusions about what someone else needs to thrive. Until you put yourself in their position, you won't understand their situation. If you want to do something generous for them, ask for what they'd like. Don't brush off their request; it's sincere. No matter how nice you are to a colleague, you encounter hostility. Rather than trying to get their approval, do something nice for yourself. Stop beating yourself up for minor mistakes. Give yourself credit for breakthroughs. Spoil yourself whenever possible.

Are you nervous about sharing resources with a romantic partner? It will be best to maintain three accounts: Yours, mine and ours. If one of you makes a lot more than the other, divide bills by percentages of income, rather than equal amounts. Your happiness is not reliant on a romantic relationship. You have so many interests. Delving deep into a hobby will cultivate the contentment you desire. Being in love will be icing on the cake.

You've always gained approval by doing the difficult jobs nobody else wants to do. Stop pushing yourself to do more than is fair. Make more time in your schedule for the domestic pursuits you love. Bake bread, plan a garden or redecorate a room. A relative will try to make you feel guilty about doing less than usual. Turn a deaf ear to their complaints. Once they realise you can't be manipulated, they'll have a temper tantrum, then look for another victim.

Stop thinking small about work, think big. You're so creative, organised and personable. Landing a wonderful job will be easy. It's simply a matter of looking for a position that fills you with excitement. Don't worry if you lack experience. Your enthusiasm will win the day. A relative or neighbour who constantly complains is a warning sign. Adopt a more positive outlook. When you're faced with a change, assume everything will work to your advantage. This upbeat attitude will pave the way to success.

Stop insisting you must suffer to make lots of money. You could earn a fortune through your creative ability. You've always been good with your hands. Think about making furniture, jewellery or baked goods that can be sold to discerning customers. Trying to buy someone's affection will not work. If a person is going to fall in love with you, it will be because they appreciate your intelligence, humour and consideration. Be yourself and let nature take its course.

Your family is intent on your doing things their way. You have no desire to pursue a boring job, live in an oppressive part of the world or have a conventional relationship. Strike out on your own, even if it means making mistakes. Standing on your own is frightening. Do it anyway. You can have a rewarding career in the arts, buy a beautiful home and find your dream partner. Stop listening to the naysayers and tune in to your intuition.

Fear of the unknown shouldn't stop you from taking a risk. You're not the type who can thrive on predictable routines. Trying something new will make your pulse pound with excitement. Your eyes will sparkle and your skin will glow. If you're single, you'll meet someone special at a spiritual retreat, government agency or support group. Go over and introduce yourself. Are you in a relationship? Lean on your amour for support. Your other half will give you the encouragement you need to push past insecurities.

Don't berate yourself if you haven't attained the financial security that your friends have. Everyone has different needs and priorities. You're an adventurous person. Usually, you land on your feet after taking risks. Continue to believe in your good luck; this confidence serves you well. Someone is trying to take advantage of your good nature. Stop worrying about looking hard and callous. Turning away their demands for help will save you lots of time, money and heartache. Protect your interests; that's your job.

Stop being modest at work. Claiming the credit for your contributions will help you up the ladder to success. Waiting modestly to be noticed will cause you to be ignored in favour of more assertive colleagues. The choice is yours. Are you afraid of looking hard and uncompromising? Don't be. You're facing a situation that requires close attention to detail. Letting mistakes slide will reflect badly on you. Tighten the screws and demand perfection. Reward those who meet your high standards.

Obsessing over the integrity of government officials will be a waste of energy. The more you learn about how corrupt a politician is, the more powerless you will feel. Take control over your destiny. Instead of dreaming about a long-distance trip, book one. Stop looking down on someone whose background is radically different from yours. Although you disagree with their outlook and beliefs, that doesn't mean you can't work together. Your contrasting perspectives can be helpful in solving a persistent problem.

Your impulse to help others is admirable, but it shouldn't overshadow your own needs. When someone asks you to join a fundraising project, give them a polite but firm refusal. You have better things to do with your time, like fulfilling your sensual needs. Getting lost in your amour's arms will put the world back into perspective. It feels wonderful to be with someone who is intent on making you happy, instead of the other way around. Be selfish.