Don't use your professional status to get special privileges. You'll make a lot of people angry if you push your way to the front of the queue. Adopt a humble attitude and play by the rules. This will help you form better relationships with the people who work for you. If an irresponsible relative asks for a job, be ready to turn them down. Bringing this troublemaker into the fold will feel like a slap in the face to diligent workers.

If someone doesn't share your belief system, don't try to convert them. Showing respect for others' philosophies will earn the respect of your relatives and neighbours. Being open minded doesn't mean you are unethical. It just shows that your ego isn't wrapped up in your credo. Stay away from controversial subjects and keep the conversation light. This will help everybody come together in a spirit of harmony. It's time to celebrate a happy time. Political and religious debates can wait for another time.

If you've been trying to decide between attractive admirers, be careful. There's a fine line between playing the field and stringing someone along. Think about why you're so reluctant to make a commitment. Are you afraid your feelings will change? Is the prospect of settling down frightening or are you unsure that one person can satisfy your needs? Be honest with yourself and the people in your love life. In a relationship? Try expressing your devotion to your amour in a way that isn't physical.

Taking your best friend or romantic partner for granted is creating tension. No matter what kind of pressure you're experiencing, it's important to put the focus on your loved one. Ask about their welfare, find ways to help them in small ways and don't make any demands on their time. A generous, accommodating attitude will start to heal the rift between you. Relationships are about give and take. If you want to talk about your problems, think about going to a professional counsellor.

Overindulging in food and drink will take a toll on your health. Stay away from tempting situations. Instead of going out for meals, start preparing nourishing meals at home. Salads, soups and sandwiches made from fresh ingredients will boost your energy level. If you drink alcohol, stay away from it for a few days. Give your system a chance to detoxify. The sad, sluggish feeling that has been dogging you will slowly vanish into thin air. Your emotional and physical health are linked.

Trying to buy someone's affection will result in failure. The best way to strengthen a relationship is to spend quality time together. Someone near and dear to you will sulk when you don't buy them an expensive trinket. Try not to take their bad attitude personally. A toxic dynamic has been created. You have a chance to break the cycle and replace it with a much healthier one. Get into the habit of cooking meals, talking walks and playing games together.

Although your family loves you, they have a tendency to protect you from painful truths. Instead of asking them for comfort, push yourself harder. Becoming self-reliant will make you feel better about yourself. Whether this means getting a better job, moving into your own place or receiving treatment for an addiction is immaterial. The important thing is to hold yourself to a high standard. It's nice that your relatives love you unconditionally. Don't let their loyalty stop you realising your full potential.

Avoiding a sensitive topic will do more harm than good. If someone asks for your honest opinion, give it. This will create a big argument, but it can't be helped. You're tired of looking the other way at a relative's irresponsible behaviour. The sooner you address the problem, the better it will be for you. It will quickly become apparent that your relationship has to be put on hold for the foreseeable future. Lending money, making excuses and feigning ignorance are no longer options.

This isn't a good time to splash out on luxury goods. Keeping to a budget will help you pay the bills and have a little money left over for savings. Building a nest egg will take time, but it's a worthwhile pursuit. Even if you're not materialistic, you do appreciate the freedom money can buy. A few simple economies will allow you to take a nice trip or find a more rewarding line of work. Keep your eyes on the prize.

Indulging yourself at the expense of others will cause resentment. If you can't give everybody a treat, don't buy one for yourself. Instead, bring the group together and talk about something you can purchase and enjoy collectively. This can be anything from camping equipment to an entertainment centre to a set of books. It doesn't matter what you choose, as long as it brings the team together in a spirit of harmony. You're surrounded by love. Celebrate it at every opportunity.

A secret romance is putting you in an awkward position. If someone asks you to lie, don't do it. You don't want to be implicated in their bad behaviour. Are you thinking about getting involved in an illicit affair? Think carefully about all the innocent people who will be hurt by your choice. If you're in a troubled relationship, either try to repair it or break it off. You have a right to be happy, but hiding the truth will make a bad situation worse.

Seeking someone's friendship just to use them isn't right. When it comes to relationships, it's important to cast your lot with people you honestly like and respect. Pretending to care for someone is a betrayal. Keep your personal and professional lives separate. There's nothing wrong with asking a former colleague or employer for a reference. If you have a good friend who has a lot of clout in the community, they can also lend a hand. Befriending a person just to get a favour is a different story.