Strive for balance in all of your relationships. You and a loved one might not see eye to eye. Both of you will have to make some Christmas compromises to be happy. If you make some concessions those around you will soon follow suit. It's up to you to make the first move. You're the only one who has the insight to understand the complexity of the situation. Nothing can happen when two immovable forces bump against each other. Something has got to give.

You'll have to defend yourself from unfair accusations. It's painful to think people would believe such outrageous charges about you. Unless you address these claims, people might think you are actually guilty. Fortunately, you are calm under pressure. By giving a calm account of your actions, you will silence your detractors. Don't take the bait whenever your tormentor makes provocative statements. This will show who is telling the truth. A rival's reputation will take a big hit.

Although you are an important member of the team, nobody is irreplaceable. It's important to accept your fair share of responsibility. Throwing a temper tantrum could cause you to be ejected from the group. Don't let your pride get in the way of your long term job prospects. If you have to work Christmas, stay philosophical. Everyone has their job to do. Find a way to enjoy the festivities despite your busy schedule. Family will be happy to postpone a gathering for you.

You're touchier than usual. Casual jokes and thoughtless remarks can drive you around the bend. Remember you are hypersensitive. When you feel your blood pressure starting to rise, it's probably because you're overreacting. Take a deep breath and count to ten. You can control your reactions to upsetting situations. It's simply a matter of practice. You'll feel so much better when you develop techniques for coping with stress. Life will seem much less precarious as a result.

Beware of saying something in anger you will later regret. Although you find someone's social beliefs offensive, this is not the time to give them a lecture. It's better to turn a deaf ear to these remarks. Steer the conversation into more pleasant waters. Getting into a loud argument at a family function will spoil what could be an enjoyable day. Besides, it's not as if you'll be able to change this relative's mind. Some people would prefer to remain ignorant because it makes life easier.

You will have to spend money to make money, which makes you nervous. You're the type that needs a financial cushion to be comfortable. This won't be an option now. You'll have to dig into savings to cover bills. Instead of fretting over the situation, treat it like a personal challenge. Learning to live on faith will be empowering. You're clever enough to find new moneymaking opportunities if you keep your eyes open. Look for the silver lining to this cloud.

A friend's erratic behaviour is making you angry. You've worked hard to create a pleasant environment for everyone to enjoy, but it will be difficult for the festivities to take place if this troublemaker throws a tantrum. Issue an ultimatum and be ready to follow it through. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire. A lot of people's festive fun depends on you. Summon your courage and don't put up with the manipulative behaviour that's been holding you all hostage.

Turning the other cheek isn't an option. Someone who wants to spoil your day will keep taunting and teasing you. It's time to eject this troublemaker from your midst. If that's not an option, leave the premises and seek more enjoyable company. You have a few close friends who have always been loyal during times of trial. It may be wise to spend holidays and special occasions with these people. Why put yourself in the path of misery when you can avoid it?

You're easily bored and want to inject some excitement into the proceedings. Unfortunately, not everyone shares your sense of fun. They'd rather rest, relax and rejuvenate during their time off. Give them the gift of leisure. You can always stir up trouble when you meet with likeminded friends. Don't waste your time arguing with a know it all who enjoys challenging all of your ideas. It will just fuel their fire and deplete your energy. You have better things to do with your time.

Energies will become scattered if you're not careful. Someone who always needs to be the centre of attention will cause a commotion at an inopportune time. Ignoring their behaviour will keep things on an even keel. If they make an outrageous statement, underplay its importance. The sooner this troublemaker realises they can't push your buttons, the quicker they will look for another target. It's up to you to keep the peace at a family function. Fortunately, you are up to the task.

You will strike back if provoked. Unfortunately, outsiders may not understand you didn't start the problem. They will probably think you're pouring gasoline on an explosive situation. If you want to avoid trouble, don't engage with an annoying person. Don't respond to their taunting remarks. Are you dealing with a bully? The best way to make such tormentors go away is to shed light on their antics in a public forum. This will make them shrivel up like a salted snail.

It's hard for you to join the festivities. A social problem is weighing heavily on your mind. Nothing can be accomplished by dwelling on unhappy thoughts. Yes, you are much luckier than most people in the world. It won't help these individuals by lamenting your good fortune. Put your sadness aside for the sake of the group. Enjoy the pleasures of good friends, delicious food and pleasant pursuits. You can always donate your time, money and effort to a good cause later.