Turning a friendship into a romance isn't the best idea right now, even though it makes perfect sense to you. The fact is, the two of you know too much about each other to sustain a rewarding sexual relationship. You need a little mystery where your lover is concerned. Look elsewhere for a mate.

Don't redecorate a room if another family member uses it all the time; otherwise, you could create domestic strife. Coming to a compromise is less difficult than you think. Besides, you wouldn't like it if somebody changed your space unexpectedly. Maybe you're looking for a subtle way to control this person. Try communicating.

It feels as though just when you're ready to get down to work, somebody else interrupts you. Turn your ringer off the phone and hang a "do not disturb" sign on your door. Otherwise, you'll never complete the considerable list of chores that looms overhead. Today is a lesson in setting personal bound .

Adopting a pet is a wonderful way to fill your life with love, provided you are willing to make some personal sacrifices. Do some reading before bringing the animal into your home. There may be some responsibilities involved that you're not aware of. The more prepared you are, the easier it will be to enjoy your ward.

One of the best ways to lift your spirits is to update your look in some way; look through magazines for ideas. Vanity can be a virtue if it boosts your confidence. Just be sure that you don't confuse your appearance with your self worth. While it's true people respond more favourably to smart looking folks, it's ultimately your personality that matters.

A piece of bad news could burst your bubble if you're not careful; try to keep a positive attitude, no matter what. Otherwise, depression could set in and wipe out all the hard work you've done for the past few weeks. Another opportunity will present itself soon, but you've got to have your eyes open to see it.

Building a strong support network is key if you're going to make the most of your talents. Stop hanging around with folks who believe in nothing but bad luck. As much as you love them, it's important to recognise how their bad attitude is rubbing off on you. Join an organisation that is comprised of optimistic members.

You may not be qualified enough for a dream job, but that's no reason you have to stay that way. Take a class and brush up on your skills. Better yet, volunteer a few hours each week so that you can gain the training you need. Your persistence will be rewarded. Stop giving up at the first sign of failure.

Speaking your mind in a mixed social setting could land you in a huge vat of hot water. If someone asks for your opinion, give the most diplomatic answer. Better yet, give them a big smile and ask for their thoughts on the subject. Your rapt attention will win you a loyal fan instead of a lifelong enemy.

If you get wind that somebody has been saying bad things about you, the best thing to do is confront the person. You'll know whether the rumour is true by the way they respond to your query. It just goes to show that you can't trust folks on empty promises. Actions always speak louder than words.

A friend who keeps complaining that they have been wronged by others in their life has the wrong attitude. Let this be a lesson to you the next time you experience disappointment. By taking full responsibility for the situation, even if it's not your fault, you'll overcome the problem and go on to bigger and better things.

An argumentative relative could make life very difficult for you, especially if you're bent on accommodating them. Maybe it's best to turn a deaf ear to their requests and do the bare minimum job. After all, you have plenty of other tasks to occupy your time. The less you cater to this person, the more they'll appreciate your services.