You have decisions to make and your life to live; it is time to let go of the past and move on. People who were once a big part of your world may not now share the same long term goals. Accept that it's time to go your separate ways. A relationship you had expected to stand the tests of time looks like it will be hitting the buffers sooner than you thought. If it is meant to be it will happen but perhaps now is just not the right time.

Get out and about and mix with friends if you feel your fears might overwhelm you. Put off making big decisions until you calm down and are more able to weigh up the possible consequences without getting fearful about it. When you are anxious, you are more likely to make the wrong choices. Exercise is another good way to overcome your anxiety. Take control of your emotions; don't let them control you.

A partner needs to hear something from you before they find out from someone else. This is private between the two of you only for some reason there are a number of others who are aware of what's going on. Your partner may not like what they hear but it's still your place to tell them. There is a risk involved and you half expect them to walk out on you. It will be worse still if you lose them due to someone else's meddling.

Suppress anger and you will also be suppressing emotional energy that gives way to love and gladness. Strong emotions need release. You've always been sensitive but burying feelings deep inside isn't going to make them go away. They will resurface at some point. Learn to deal with your anger constructively. Focus on calming down, take deep breaths and then decide how you might manage the situation.

You're discovering the many sides of someone you've recently met. They aren't the person they made themselves out to be. You realise now that this friendship was begun under false pretences. Maybe they sought you out specifically to be introduced to a member of your family or to get some information out of you. Now you've discovered the motives behind their friendliness you feel annoyed with yourself for having let them deceive you.

Another person's influence has a lot to do with the doubts, uncertainties and fears you're carrying around with you now. A lot of the emotion you are feeling is coming from someone who won't let you forget the past. They will remind you of incidents you'd rather forget. You may have made mistakes but you aren't the same person and you're ready to move on .You may have succeeded in this more quickly without their constant taunts and reminders.

You aren't doing yourself any favours making big changes to suit a partner's plans for the future. You aren't ever going to fulfil your true potential by living your life through other people. Will you forever be a co-pilot of your own life while someone else determines where you are going, when and how? Or will you dare fly higher alone, into your future and on towards your own destiny?

When conflict in the home or workplace is mismanaged it could harm a relationship or split up the team. To keep personal or professional relationships strong, you need to deal with problems as they arise. Respect everyone's need to feel understood and supported. The last thing anyone wants is for a small argument to lead to a bitter dispute. A conflicting issue triggers strong emotions and this needs to be discussed. Stay calm and seek compromise.

There should be nothing selfish about love. A partner who keeps demanding that you fall in with their plans and put their wishes first loves themselves more than they care about you. Had their selfishness been apparent early in the relationship you may not have got so deeply involved. Confront your partner about the way they act. It will take a lot of love and understanding to fix the problem and it may get painful before it gets better, but eventually they will see it through your eyes.

Something does not cease to be just because you aren't looking at it or you refuse to see it. There are issues between you and a loved one that need to be addressed. You might act as if you haven't noticed but you know and they know that sooner or later it all has to come out into the open. The process of acceptance must begin with recognising there is a problem. Then look at ways to deal with it.

Insomnia or anxiety could be due to nervousness as you wait for results, decisions or consequences of past actions. Tapping your fingers, biting your nails or pacing the floor will irritate other people to a point where they will start feeling anxious for you, too. If there is something going on in your life that is more stressful than usual, take a few deep breaths, stay calm and find something else to occupy your mind.

It will be possible to strike a harmonious balance within a relationship that has been fractious of late. This partnership is more resilient than you might think. Together, you will get over this difficult phase and come out of it stronger. The words 'you were meant to be together' will ring true now. You haven't been so aware of this before because this is your first chance to prove the strength of this bond.