Dwelling on the past will undermine your productivity. If you're going to get ahead in your career, you must face an intimidating challenge. Stop telling yourself you can't do certain jobs. You can succeed at anything you try. It's simply a matter of bolstering your self-confidence. Try something new. Give yourself permission to make mistakes. Every time you make a fresh attempt, congratulate your bravery. Slowly but surely, you'll overcome your inhibitions. In a few months, you'll be acting like an old pro.

An unreliable friend has been wearing on your nerves. The next time you make plans, don't bother inviting them. You're tired of having to sell their tickets or wait for them to show up. If they confront you, be honest. You're no longer willing to accommodate a person who doesn't take their promises seriously. There's a good chance your relationship will fall by the wayside. This will be sad, but it's better than feeling like you've been slapped in the face again.

Dishonest behaviour will come back to haunt you. If someone pressures you to cut corners at work, don't do it. Your professional reputation is at stake. It's better to leave a position than lower your standards. People will question your sanity. Stand firm in your decision. You're a highly ethical person. Abandoning your principles for a salary will be a serious cause for regret. Stay true to your beliefs. They will keep you from falling victim to a corrupt system.

Don't put too much faith in a person who claims to have all the answers. There will come a time when you disagree with their advice. When this happens, it's imperative to listen to your instincts. You're the best judge of what to do in your life. People who try to control you have bad motives. They may pretend to have a protective or parental attitude towards you. Their real motive is to get you to do their bidding. Resist.

It's time to confront bad spending habits. Instead of putting every purchase on a credit card, use cash instead. Pay more than the minimum balance on your charge accounts until you're back in the black. When people invite you on expensive outings, explain you are on a budget. It will be easier to avoid embarrassing situations if you're honest. Don't be surprised when many friends want to tell you how much they admire your decision. There are lots of people in your situation. The difference is, you're willing to change these circumstances.

Keeping secrets from a loved one is taking its toll. You can no longer look your best friend, workmates or a loving partner in the eye. Take this opportunity to come clean. Be truthful about a persistent fear, an addiction or your financial situation. Once you put your cards on the table, you can work together to resolve the situation. If your other half can't come to terms with this, let them go their own way. There's no point holding on to someone who doesn't want to be with you.

Being unreliable at work will result in dismissal. Make it your mission to be on time, prepared and ready for anything. This may require you to wake up much earlier. Preparing your lunch and outfit the night before work saves lots of time. Stop telling yourself you are hopelessly tardy. You can become punctual once you change your internal script. After changing this behaviour, you'll feel confident to conquer other bad habits. Success in one area often spills into others.

Pay more attention to a youngster who feels neglected. You may be tired of their complaints, but it's important to see these negative remarks for what they are: A desire for your company. Rearrange your priorities. Instead of spending every moment at work, leave on time. Arrange for some special outings. Share some home cooked meals. Instead of checking your mobile every five seconds, turn it off and do a puzzle together. Blocking out distractions will pave the way for a closer relationship.

You're having difficulty relaxing. Stop making mountains out of molehills. Train yourself to expect everything will work in your favour. When you don't feel anxious, it becomes much easier to deal with difficult situations. Better yet, it's easier to attract solutions to difficult responsibilities. The Universe rewards those who have faith in its bounty. If you've been arguing with a relative, back off. Limit your communication to friendly text messages until the tension between you eases. By refusing to judge them, they'll become more kind and compassionate towards you.

Daydreaming won't solve a persistent problem. If you're going to remedy a situation, you must confront it. Talk to a neighbour who has been annoying you. Extend an olive branch to a relative. Invite a colleague out for coffee. By opening the lines of communication, you'll clear up a misunderstanding. Do your best to look at things from the other person's point of view. Selfish behaviour is often rooted in feelings of neglect. Being more appreciative can dramatically improve this relationship.

It's time to be practical about finances. If you're not earning enough money, ask for a raise. Find a more lucrative job. Create another source of income. Do whatever is possible to increase your earnings and reduce spending. Material matters aren't very important to you, but financial security is. Having a secure foundation allows you to pursue relationships, jobs and creative opportunities that fill you with excitement. Drowning in debt will force you into unpleasant situations. Choose which path you'd rather take.

You're confused about your personal goals. Instead of hoping for something practical, set your sights on a dream that seems out of reach. The best way to manifest something is to fully concentrate on it. There's no point in hoping for a boring, predictable job if what you really want is a career that provides creative satisfaction. Be honest with yourself. Trust your intuition. This will help you break out of a predictable routine that makes you bored, anxious and unhappy.