You won't be able to save somebody from their own demons. If you've been trying to help a person who has a substance abuse problem, direct them to a recovery program. Lending them money or covering their mistakes will just pour fuel on a smouldering fire. You hate standing idly by while a friend is struggling. Instead of leaping to their defence, wish them the best. Turn your attention to work that must be done in your own life. Your first loyalty is to yourself.

Being too rigid is stunting your emotional growth. Although you don't have to give your approval for slipshod work, you might want to lower your expectations. If you want exceptional results, you'll have to offer fantastic rewards. Similarly, if you expect a youngster to do well, find out what activities they enjoy. Don't expect someone to be a fantastic mathematician if they are putting all their energy into art. By demonstrating respect for an individual's strengths, they'll work harder to win your approval.

It's difficult for you to think clearly unless your work space is orderly. Take a few moments to clear the clutter from your desk. If you have difficulty letting go of papers, file them neatly into a storage box. Put the old files where they won't obstruct your daily duties. Does the prospect of such a task overwhelm you? Start with a single drawer. Once this task is complete, you'll be inspired to move on to another area. Organising is addictive.

Working around the clock has diminishing returns. If you don't slow down, you'll make an embarrassing mistake. Instead of automatically carrying out your boss's orders, set a healthy boundary. Make it clear you won't work past a certain time. Don't take work calls from home. Delegate tasks to other colleagues. You've been carrying the load for everyone else. Now it's time to relinquish some duties. If someone dares question your work ethic, it's only because they resent having to do their own job.

Don't be pressured into accepting more work. It's more important to catch up on sleep and enjoy leisure time with friends. Your boss and colleagues may not be thrilled with your decision. That's unfortunate. Your first loyalty is to yourself. When you feel like you're on the verge of burnout, you have to take a break. Even a day off work will revive your spirits. It will also restore your personal magnetism. It's easier to attract love when you're relaxed.

You don't need anyone else's approval. If you feel strongly about making a change, do it. Certain friends and relatives won't support you. They have a vested interest in you remaining in the same place. This doesn't serve you well. Take this opportunity to break a bad habit, end a toxic relationship or change jobs. You'll feel an immediate sense of relief. If any of your critics try to undermine or block your progress, take it as a sign you no longer need them in your life.

Continual worry is undermining your enjoyment of life. Start practicing relaxation techniques. Even taking ten minutes a day to breathe deep and focus on a soothing image can promote wellness. If you think you have a serious problem, meet with a counsellor who specialises in obsessive thought patterns. Together, you can develop a coping strategy. You have so much energy. Don't waste it by fretting over things you can't control. Instead, give your energy to inspiring people, ideas and practices.

A familiar routine is grating on your nerves. It's time to shake things up. Whether this means taking a road trip, starting a creative project or looking for a new job is immaterial. The important thing is to explore unknown territory. Changing gears will cause a financial pinch. Fortunately, you're very resourceful. You'll have no trouble developing new ways to make ends meet. The important thing is your zest for life will be restored. Taking temporary job assignments will improve your cash flow.

Working around the clock won't help your career. It will undermine your productivity. Take a few hours to rest, relax and recharge your batteries. When you return to your job, you'll zip through chores like a hot knife through butter. Don't worry about a newcomer with impressive skills. You can be allies instead of rivals, but it will take time to earn each other's trust. For now, adopt a friendly attitude. If you see a chance to collaborate, take it. If not, stay busy with your daily routine.

It would be wise to keep your emotions under wraps. A relative is searching for a chink in your armour. If they detect one, they'll hit it relentlessly. Keep this tormentor at arm's length. It's more important to protect your heart than be respectful. When your anger starts to rise, find a healthy outlet for it. Playing sports, taking a brisk walk or doing some gentle stretching will alleviate tension that has built up in your body. Never underestimate the power of your mind-body connection.

It can be hard for people to know you. Rather than betraying your feelings, you maintain a poker face. This is frustrating for those who want to know where you stand. Maintain this impassive attitude in your public life. When it comes to personal relationships, you should be more forthcoming. Your loved ones won't be comfortable if they're perpetually in the dark. Speak up when you want love, affection and help. Always show your appreciation for all the wonderful things they give to you.

People wonder why you're not more ambitious. Whilst you are undeniably talented, you don't take any pleasure out of outperforming the competition. That's because you prefer finding ways to nurture and inspire your soul. Instead of climbing the ladder of success, you prefer to sit quietly and appreciate what you have. This makes your rivals upset. They're jealous of your contentment. This attitude of gratitude is one of your superpowers. Summon it whenever you feel jealous.