You and someone you used to be close to are growing slowly apart. It's as if you're living two separate lives, having experiences you can't share and discovering interests that divide you in two. You could easily continue this way for a lot longer but what is the point? Either you have to start talking to each other on a daily basis, or you need to deal with the changes occurring in this relationship.

You may wonder at times about where life would have taken you if you weren't where you are right now. Is it a result of your own decisions or was it other people who had the main control? There is no doubt issues with regard to past dealings or decisions are of concern but what's important is to remember you can't change what has gone before. Don't dwell too long on regrets.

Freewill is all very well if you want to get ahead in areas that don't involve or affect other people. In solo endeavours, push ahead and you won't be disappointed with the results. What you definitely can't do is to demand autonomy in joint concerns and expect others to fall back and let you lead the way. In this instance it is the will of the majority that will determine the way you are all going to go.

You react to a job offer or to the chance to join a residential course with reservation. Where travel and new places are involved, you aren't sure you want to make that final commitment. Some people are pressuring you into making a decision you feel you might regret. Once you reach the point where you confess to yourself you aren't ready for this type of change, you will start to feel more confident about your eventual decision.

Efforts to make it up with someone you've fallen out with in the past won't be wasted. There is a good chance of reconciliation and forgiveness. If your lips said one thing but your heart another, now is the time to apologise for being so foolish. You should have followed your heart from the start and now you realise this, you're unlikely to make the same mistake again.

You're on the verge of giving up and allowing a friend or colleague to take over a job you started. Guard against hasty actions. The frustration you feel at the start of the day is just temporary. To quit is to take the easy way out. Have another go at what has failed in the past and you might be surprised by how easy it is to get ahead, once you get over a few hurdles.

Don't ever feel you aren't worthy of someone else's love. The truth is you will be helping a partner or lover out by accepting the devotion and affection they now bestow on you. Inviting someone into your life will prove to be such a liberating experience. You will start to love yourself more as you see yourself through another person's eyes. Reconciliations are favoured now.

There's a strong desire to make a start on a renovation or redecoration project for your home. Worries you have about the heavy expenses involved are anxieties which have been etched into your brain since childhood. Not having complete control in this venture is something you will also feel perturbed about. The experience will help you face up to past fears and realise you don't always have to have power over everything.

You have a better understanding of issues and concerns that have been causing some confusion. Through this you might realise your actions and behaviour of the past have at times been influenced by your interpretation of others. If you picked up the wrong signals or read between the lines and came up with the wrong conclusion, let others know you now see where you went wrong. It won't be too difficult to make amends.

In important financial and career matters, it's no use relying on second hand advice. A cautious approach is necessary in employment and pecuniary activities. If you need more information, go to those who know what they're talking about. Someone might be impatient with your hesitation but the truth of the matter is you need to have certain enquiries answered before you feel confident enough to make firm decisions.

The reason you're having problems understanding a close friend or partner is they're upset or ashamed about something. Someone is blaming themselves for a past wrongdoing to a point where they're almost obsessed with guilt and remorse. It might be up to you to convince them they need to forgive themselves. Maybe they aren't proud of what they have done but with forgiveness they should be able to live with it!

What you might start realising these next few days is you don't need anyone's opinion or approval but your own. It's about time you stopped listening to those who are judgemental and who are trying to convince you your ideas are wrong. If someone regularly criticises, it might be time to remove yourself from this relationship and surround yourself with people who foster your happiness and well being!