Beware of jumping to conclusions, especially where romance is concerned. Just because your amour wants to spend time with friends doesn't mean your relationship is doomed. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Keep busy with a writing project that has captured your imagination. Launching a blog or starting a diary will be a welcome outlet for your frustrations. Getting into the habit of writing on a daily basis will make you much more caring and considerate. Cultivate your nurturing side.

You're so busy counting up small resentments that you've lost sight of the big picture. Instead of focusing on what you lack, think about everything you get from a relationship. The more credit you give to a friend, relative, or lover, the stronger your relationship will become. Nothing spurs generosity like showing your appreciation. Demonstrate your gratitude through both words and deeds. Think about buying a new computer or phone.

Unnecessary anxiety is weighing you down. Stop imagining the worst case scenario. If you really can't help obsessing over terrible outcomes, sit down and write down the most horrible result you can imagine. Embellish as much detail as you can. Then wait 10 minutes and read what you've written. The story you've woven will sound so absurd you'll start to laugh. Being active can also relieve tension, especially sports requiring quick reflexes like squash, tennis, and ping pong.

It's important to know the difference between mothering and smothering. Although you want the best for a loved one, you can sometimes be overprotective. Give your friend a chance to make mistakes. It's the only way to foster independence. You've got to develop an identity outside of your relationships. Start listening to your instincts more. Stop acting like a satellite to others. You have your own life to lead.

Your stubborn attitude is undermining an intimate relationship. Sometimes there are more important things than getting your way. Growing together requires compromise. Go ahead and let your partner set the pace. Follow their suggestions, even if they sound terribly dull. Yes, this may mean sitting through a boring recital or game, but at least you will have supported your friend's interests. There's a very good chance you'll end up having a good time, too.

Don't sit on the sidelines while everyone else is having fun. There's no reason you should get stuck with cleanup duty all the time. Kick off your shoes, let down your hair, and join the festivities. You're wonderfully witty when you relax. An important executive will be impressed with your gift with words, and ask to meet with you privately. Don't underestimate the importance of this request. This bigwig doesn't make time in their schedule for just anyone.

Denial isn't only a river in Egypt; it's a state of mind for you. While your desire to avoid unpleasant scenes is understandable, it is also harmful. Someone is acting out to get your attention. Stop what you're doing and acknowledge the problem. A big argument will erupt, but at least it will clear the air. What you may not realise is how much you have suffered from this old routine. Take this opportunity to head for greener pastures.

It's time to relinquish control over a relationship; you simply can't force someone to do what you want. Yes, there is a good chance your friend will choose a path that really angers you. Ultimately there's nothing you can do to alter the situation. Turn your attention to satisfying your sensual desires. Lay in a supply of gourmet food, schedule a series of spa treatments, or buy yourself some brand new bed linens.

Sometimes your honesty is experienced as rudeness. This is one of those times when it's better to tell a white lie than render your real opinion. A neighbour or relative is especially sensitive now. If you simply can't bring yourself to couch your words in soft phrases, remain silent. Follow the example of someone who helped you through a particularly tough time. Successful people always show restraint, especially when dealing with difficult situations.

Don't forget your sense of humour. A seemingly terrible situation does have its light side. You just have to be open to laughing in the face of disaster. When people see you're able to cope with stress in a light hearted way, they'll redouble their efforts to help you. Keeping busy takes your mind off your troubles. Have a book or mp3 player handy so you'll be able to amuse yourself while stuck waiting in a long line. If you don't, time will slow to a crawl.

You have a tendency to hold people at arm's lengths. That's because you're more comfortable with ideas than emotions. Even your closest friends sometimes worry they don't really know you. The next time you feel yourself detaching from a close friend, reverse the process. Offer some warm words of praise or heartfelt thanks. Dropping your defences will be difficult but rewarding. You'll be amazed to see how eagerly your loved one responds to your warmth.

Confidence is not your strong suit. If somebody looks at you the wrong way, you become filled with doubt. Give yourself credit where credit is due. You're incredibly accomplished, especially when it comes to art, relationships, and charitable endeavours. You know how to put people at ease and make them feel valued. With talents like yours, it's unnecessary to seek the approval of others. A DIY project helps you see you're a lot more handy than you thought.