It feels like you can't make a move without being criticised. There's no point in trying to live up to others unfair expectations. This is your life, and nobody else can live it for you. If that means you do your own thing then so be it. What are luxuries to some are necessities to others: be your own man or woman.

Don't assume that your career path is safe and secure, even if your superiors tell you so. The best insurance policy is staying current with technological trends. Take a class in a computer program that has developed since you applied for your present job. This simple skill will give your résumé a a powerful boost and make you sought after.

Giving in to a partner or friend is starting to undermine your confidence; stand up for your beliefs when challenged. Although this could create a momentary rift in your relationship, your mate will come to respect your strong character. This renewed strength may prompt you to develop an artistic talent or bond your ties closer as a couple.

Although a club's rules seems stuffy to you, it's in your best interests to obey them or you'll get a reputation for being unreasonable. Sometimes you have to swallow your own desires for the sake of your reputation. Expressing yourself through a writing project may mean there's no need to go through the motions to keep traditionalists happy.

If you continue to push a loved one past the breaking point; your manipulations will take a toll on your relationship. If your other half is dead set against your doing something, you'll have to accept their decision. Your calm acceptance could be enough to change their mind. In the meantime, quit the dirty tricks as when you're found out they'll be all hell to pay.

Indulging your physical needs and sensual desires could have an adverse affect on you medically; practice moderation in all things. There's no harm in enjoying an occasional treat, but your body needs rest and exercise, too. If an entire overhaul of your health regimen is too daunting, make a series of small changes over time.

"Do as I say, not as I do" may be your motto with regard to someone in your life, but it's not going to help your relationship with each other. Until you hold yourself to the same standard as them, your association will suffer. Perhaps you are unconsciously trying to sabotage your affair? Be honest with yourself: have you had enough of them?

You may not be able to further your career due to domestic responsibilities. Try not to be resentful. The fact is, you can have it all, but not all at once. You're simply at a different stage of life right now. Focus on enjoying a pet or child whilst they're young. When you look back, this time will seem precious and fleeting.

A relationship involves more responsibility than you're ready for right now. Are you really willing to give up your happiness for the sake of independence? At some point, it's better to be settled than to be free. Don't be afraid. You will be able to provide your partner with what they need when the time is right - is that so now?

A relative may be a little hurt that you haven't followed in their footsteps, but there's nothing you can do. It's unreasonable to ask you to devote your life to something that makes you so unhappy. Stop apologising for following your heart: the approval you need is your own. Sooner or later, this person will come to terms with your decision.

A last minute change of plans doesn't discourage you from reaching your goal, but it does make you impatient with circumstances. Be honest about your feelings, or an objective will be in jeopardy. Chances are someone doesn't realise how their thoughtless behaviour is affecting your life. Bring the problem to their attention.

Getting what you want shouldn't be the driving force in your life; consider the greater good rather than your own motives for a change. You'll feel more satisfied when you start working with others. The reason behind your behaviour is fear. You've been burned too many times by opportunists. Be more discriminating about the company you keep.