You feel rather heavy right now, perhaps because you've overindulged in food and drink. Eating lighter fare is probably the best bet right now. If you've received disappointing news, surround yourself with positive people. At times, their optimism will annoy you, but it will ultimately uplift you. It's possible you're having a hard time finding work. You must remember this situation has nothing to do with you. It's a function of the economy. Be kind to yourself during this stressful time.

Letting responsibilities fall by the wayside will get you in trouble. Normally, you're quite diligent about following up. Lately, though, you've been letting phone and email messages pile up. If you continue to do so, people will get offended. Go through your mail pile and pay any bills that have accumulated. Throw away circulars and adverts that just take up space. Clutter is overwhelming. Getting rid of it will make you more productive and give you more room to work.

You could be jealous of someone who has a lot more freedom than you. While it's true you're saddled with responsibility, that doesn't mean you can't have fun. You need to make time for the people and activities you love. If that means throwing certain duties by the wayside, so be it. Watch out for a boundary testing youngster. A certain amount of rebellion is normal. Try not to take their anger or distain personally.

Try not to put too much emphasis on financial security. You can take all the precautions you want, but ultimately, we're all victims of an uncertain future. With this in mind, you can afford to take some risks. This is especially true about intellectual pursuits. If you've always wanted to explore a taboo subject, now would be a great time to do so. Don't worry about what others will think of your newfound interest. You only need to satisfy yourself.

A financial pinch is making you nervous. Try not to let this limitation affect your relationships. Your loved ones are among your most precious possessions. By keeping them close, you won't feel deprived. If you're looking for employment, you may have to work as a volunteer for your desired employer. Eventually, you will be offered a paying position. It's all about getting your foot in the door. Don't let pride prompt you to pass up a golden opportunity.

You're terrified people won't like you and this could prompt you to act like a clown or a taskmaster. Such a mask will prevent you from forming strong relationships with others. Break the ice by confessing your nervousness. People will admire your candour and cut you some slack. You have a tendency to be morose. Try not to bring the mood in a room down with dour observations. So what if everyone is being delusional? Leave them to their rose coloured glasses.

You can't hide from your pain. The temptation to drown your sorrows in alcohol, drugs, or junk food will only compound your problems. Facing your grief head on is an essential part of the healing process. It feels like you've been cast to the wolves. Perhaps it would help to find a support group. Joining a club or sports team will prevent you from withdrawing into your own private torment. Resist the urge to beat yourself up for a mistake. Remember, you're only human.

Beware of the company you keep; friends who have a gloomy outlook could be affecting your mood. While it's admirable to have a social conscience, nobody can save the world. Focus on being a positive force within your own realm. Don't feel guilty for having a comfortable lifestyle. There's nothing noble about slumming it. You've always been a generous person, and never hesitate to share your good fortune with others. This attitude has helped countless others.

Ambition could be eating away at you. You have to make a distinction between your self worth and the role you occupy in society. No matter how important or incidental you are in the workplace, you're equal to everyone on a global scale. Treat everyone with the dignity they deserve. Taking out your frustrations on an underling will reflect poorly on you. If a powerful person heaps you with abuse, occupy yourself with an activity that boosts your self esteem.

The prospect of too much freedom terrifies you. That doesn't give you license to monitor everyone else's behaviour. Resist the urge to admonish someone for a questionable decision. You can't impose your ethics on others. Despite what you might think they do have ethics and principles. They just aren't your principles. People will be more respectful of your beliefs when you extend the same courtesy to them. Don't let a cultural disconnect prevent you from making friends with a newcomer.

You can't tolerate infidelity; if someone has betrayed you, take a deep breath and consider your next move. Breaking away from this relationship won't be easy, but it's essential to your emotional health. People will think you're being unduly harsh, but they don't understand how deeply you feel about this matter. In the future, you need to be more emotionally available to friends and lovers. Your aloof attitude makes people question whether you really care.

An unequal partnership is making you miserable. A friend, lover, or business partner makes you feel like you're one inch tall. It's time to end this dynamic. Standing up for yourself will be scary but rewarding. If they continue to treat you disrespectfully, you need to move on to greener pastures. Life is too short to waste on relationships that make you feel diminished. Don't shrink from going solo. It will give you an unprecedented level of freedom.