There is an element of remoteness about you that is most intimidating. That's because you're more interested in making progress than mindless chitchat. People who aren't willing to work hard and do their best should steer clear of you. You won't hesitate to call someone lazy if they fail to live up to your standards. Be gentle with an absent minded relative who means well but is thoroughly disorganised. Some people are made to give orders while others are meant to follow them.

You really don't care what people think of your choices, which is a refreshing switch. In the past, it was terribly important for you to fit in with the crowd. Now you realise how futile such impulses are. You've been blessed with unique talent; why try to fit into some prescribed mould? Follow your heart. A laid back attitude will upset some neighbours and relatives, but that can't be helped. Pursue an opportunity to join a creative organisation. You'll be glad to meet some kindred spirits.

As a general rule, you don't fall victim to jealousy. That could change when a rival lands a plum position. Instead of feeling hard done by work out how you can get similar jobs. Getting additional training can help. Serving as an apprentice to an accomplished professional will also be educational. You have all the tools for achieving success except focus. Fortunately, this trait can be developed. All it takes is a little time and a lot of practice.

When faced with a crisis, do not panic. Draw upon your most valuable resources: Friends and family. You've always been on hand to lend assistance to others. Give your loved ones a chance to return the favour. Be realistic about which jobs can be best handled by various members of your social circle. There's no point in asking a scatterbrain to tackle a detail oriented project. Similarly, you shouldn't give a job with a tight deadline to a painstaking nitpicker.

Someone who is trying to appeal to your soft side won't get very far. You'll dissect their excuses with unerring logic. While you're always sympathetic to people undergoing legitimate problems, it's obvious the person in question is just a slacker. Why should you be expected to pay for their mistakes? The sooner you show your displeasure, the better. Some may think you're being rude and insensitive. When it becomes their turn to deal with this fool, they'll regret having misjudged you.

You're ready to take the lead in a romance. It gets tiring waiting for someone to make the first move. Although you're shy and retiring by nature, you won't let fear get in the way of what you want. If you happen to be rejected, don't pout. A far more rewarding relationship is around the corner. Treat any setbacks you experience now as valuable lessons. It's possible someone is lurking in the shadows, waiting for you to notice their kind nature and expressive eyes.

Trust your instincts, even if they prompt you to confront an oppressive relative. You're always trying to create a comfortable environment for everyone. This can't happen if the whole group is afraid of rubbing a certain family member the wrong way. The sooner you challenge this bully, the faster things will settle down. It's especially important to come to the defence of your best friend or lover when they are attacked. Be very clear about whose side you are on.

You move too quickly for people who hate change. Although you prefer familiar routines, you are also able to recognise when a transformation is necessary. Clinging to an outmoded formula will just put you at a disadvantage. Someone who thinks they are an expert on everything will demean your efforts to move forward. Ignore their snide comments. Pretty soon, you'll be the one pulling away from the pack while your rivals will wonder how they got left in the dust.

If you're going to take a risk, it will be of the calculated variety. You won't go boldly into a venture without doing some preliminary research. Investing money in a promising venture will pay off, but not as quickly as you hope. Be patient. It will take time for a radical idea to catch on. Avoid courting extremely wealthy clients from the start. You'll make more progress by offering a reasonably priced product or service at first. Later, you can develop an upmarket version.

You're ready to spring into action and make things happen. Unfortunately, your best friend or lover doesn't share your enthusiasm. You'll either have to drag them along for the ride or leave them at home. Either way, nothing is going to break your stride. Resist the urge to push an authority figure's buttons. You'll catch more flies with honey than you will with vinegar. A lovely message from a neighbour or relative fills you with pleasure. An elegant dinner party could be in the cards.

Don't fool yourself regarding a manipulative colleague. Although your fellow worker is loaded with charm, they have a lousy work ethic. To add insult to injury, this trickster will be more than happy to blame you for their mistakes. That's why it's important to keep a record of all your communications. If necessary, have everyone sign off on a project before submitting it. That way, there won't be any question about who performed which duties. Protect your interests, even at the risk of causing offence.

Your personal allure cannot be denied. It will be easy to make inroads with newcomers. Everyone wants to make your acquaintance. Maybe it's because you radiate such elegance and calm. People want to have a share of your contentment. Steer clear of a childish artist who needs lots of attention. You have better things to do than feed their ego. You're better off affiliating yourself with a seasoned expert who knows who they are and where they are going.