You're tired of looking in the mirror and feeling wanting. Part of the problem is you are buying into the culture's idea of beauty. Just because you don't conform to some magazine ideal doesn't mean you are undesirable. Monitor your thoughts for critical comments, and replace them with praise. Wear clothes that enhance your natural good looks, and stop trying to wear fashions that feel uncomfortable. Make a list of five physical traits you love about yourself, and post them in the bathroom.

Embarrassing information comes to light, and you're not sure how to deal with this revelation. Don't bother defending yourself to judgmental relatives and neighbours. Instead, come to terms with these issues. If you need treatment for an addiction or phobia, get it. A sympathetic counsellor will help you move past limiting thoughts and behaviours. Just because you ask for help doesn't mean you are weak. On the contrary; it takes a strong person to make a positive change.

Someone you love could drop out of sight, leaving you sad and adrift. This might be a sign you should become more self reliant. Getting a job that draws on your imagination will increase your independence. Don't worry what others will say if you start pursuing a seemingly unstable field. The important thing is to satisfy your own needs. Trying to meet other people's expectations is always an exercise in futility. Break yourself free of this destructive impulse.

You won't have control over your career path, which is frustrating. You've always been extremely ambitious, and have prided yourself on making good decisions. Unfortunately, the market has changed and you may not have many opportunities to pursue your desired field. Instead of dwelling on your disappointment, do some internal inventory. Make a list of things you love to do, and then devote your attention to one of these activities.

You will be forced into unfamiliar surroundings, which is very uncomfortable. Instead of struggling, lean into the situation. See what you can learn from the people around you. Ask for help when you need it. Making yourself vulnerable to others will be a valuable lesson. Normally, you're the one in control. It gives you pleasure to bestow gifts to others. Now you're in the passenger seat, you'll see life from an entirely different perspective. That's a good thing.

It's difficult to repay debts right now, which is affecting your self esteem. At times like these, it's important to remember your bank balance has no bearing on your personal worth. Many people are struggling. By suspending judgement and joining their ranks, you'll learn great ways to become more resourceful. You'll also become more open minded. It's always been true that people who do the most important work in society aren't compensated very well.

Dealing with an erratic person is draining your energy. You're tired of walking on eggshells all the time. If you have your own business, you might have to get rid of a troublesome client. Do you work for a company that expects you to deal with a difficult customer? Talk to your boss about the problem. Life is too short to keep putting up with all these hassles and headaches. If your partner is causing all of this stress, you've got to establish new ground rules.

You're sick and tired of having to deal with a lot of nonsense at work. Perhaps one of your colleagues is always off sick. Maybe you're working without a boss. You might even be asked to train your superior. Whatever the source of stress, remain calm. Perhaps you should go on holiday to escape all this craziness. By the time you return, your office will operate in a much different way. That's because you're the last bastion of stability.

People will be offended by your ideas, making you feel like a social outcast. You don't mean to make waves, but you do want to explore new ideas. Unfortunately, this feels threatening to the more conservative members of your social circle. Instead of trying to defend your proposal take a step back. Sneak off to a private hideaway with your lover. Are you single? You could meet someone special at a spa or waterside retreat. It pays to get away.

Family responsibilities are weighing heavily on you. It may be time to delegate tasks to relatives and roommates. That way, you'll have more opportunity to focus on activities that give you pleasure. If you're on your own, think about hiring somebody to do the housework. Turn a deaf ear to your best friend or lover's disapproval. Just because you've always juggled five or six jobs doesn't mean that's your permanent fate.

It's hard seeing eye to eye with neighbours. The people around you seem possessed by fear. You'd rather have a diverse community that supports all sorts of interests. Unfortunately, this attitude is very unpopular. Maybe it's time to move to a more stimulating area, one in which you can meet a variety of people. If that's not possible, think about joining an online club where you're able to discuss your interests without fear of censure.

Examine your priorities. You've been spending a lot of time on people and activities that don't bring you a lot of pleasure. Aren't you tired of doing the responsible thing all the time? There are times when you need spiritual and creative diversions so you can transcend the here and now to explore new possibilities. It may be necessary to let go of a relationship or work assignment that makes you miserable. Go ahead and cut the cord. You'll be so relieved when you do.