Adopting a possessive attitude will drive people from your door. Just because you are the head of a department or family doesn't mean you can control the members of the group. When you show respect for people's feelings and opinions, they'll become more cooperative. You're having difficulty making a detached decision about your family's welfare. Talk to a logical Virgo or Aquarius that you admire. They'll give you helpful advice on how to help an ill or ailing relative.

You have difficulty feeling sympathy for others who ask for assistance. Rather than questioning their motives or criticising their behaviour, give them the benefit of the doubt. You never know what a person is experiencing until you walk in their shoes. A desire from freedom causes you to resist a close relationship. Instead of turning away a friendly person, let down your defences. Being a lone wolf is overrated. Forming strong bonds of affection is critical to your health and happiness.

The peace and quiet you want are elusive. People keep interrupting you, asking your advice and demanding your help. Rather than pushing them out of your sanctuary, agree to help them. Once everyone realises they haven't been abandoned, they'll be more respectful of your boundaries. You're cautious about finances and romance. Taking a risk fills you with fear. You'd rather stick to the tried and trusted. This conservative attitude is causing you to miss golden opportunities. Summon your courage and try something new.

Someone you love has disappointed you. Try not to take their behaviour personally. You're dealing with someone who panics when handed responsibilities. It's better to dispatch important tasks yourself. Your relationship has many benefits, but sharing duties isn't one of them. Playing by the rules doesn't interest you. You'd rather be guided by instinct. This impulsive attitude attracts both admiration and disapproval. Causing a commotion is lots of fun. It makes you feel relevant. The days of fading into the woodwork are over.

Beware of putting too much stress on your body. Although you have been blessed with natural vitality, there is a limit to even your physical strength. Avoid junk food like the plague. Take a nap when you're tired. Go for walks when you're anxious. You soak up information like a sponge. That's why it's important for you to surround yourself with kind, optimistic people. A relative who is always radiating gloom should be avoided like the plague. Don't let them poison your outlook.

You feel like you're a fish out of water. There are worse things than being an outsider. Not being a member of the group gives you an interesting perspective. Finding solutions to problems is easy for people in your situation. Your suggestions will be appreciated. Just because you are indifferent to domestic comfort does not mean you should ignore your family's complaints. Do whatever you can to make your nearest and dearest more comfortable, even if it means spending money on things you don't want.

You have no intention of changing your position. This will cause a great deal of anger at home. Relatives see you as being irrational and unreasonable. Their needs are different from yours. Unless some adjustments are made, the group will continue to suffer. It's difficult for you to relax and let go. Work responsibilities command the lion's share of your attention. It's time to change your priorities. Going on holiday will put life in proper perspective. Head for a destination that's near a beautiful body of water.

People aren't being very compassionate. Unreasonable demands and unfair rules are causing resentment to fester. Take this opportunity to spread kindness and encouragement. Your thoughtful behaviour will be greatly appreciated. Petty arguments and continual complaints will be replaced by jokes and compliments. A tendency to scatter your energies is undermining your productivity. Before beginning work each day, make a list of three goals you want to accomplish. This will sharpen your focus and make you immune to distractions.

You're overanalysing a practical matter. Instead of worrying what others will think of your decision, decide to take the most pleasant path. Accepting a lot of additional responsibilities won't increase your worth to the group. People might even denigrate you for being so agreeable. Suppressed feelings are bubbling to the surface. It's time to confront a problem that has made you angry or upset. Have a heart to heart discussion with a colleague who has hurt your feelings. Tell an interfering relative to mind their own business.

A job isn't as prestigious as you expected. Rather than abandoning it, fulfil your immediate responsibilities. Give the group notice that you are leaving. By giving the team ample warning of your departure, they'll have time to find a replacement for you. Do you feel someone has been taking advantage of you? It's time to establish some firm, healthy boundaries. Don't worry about appearing rude or callous. Your first loyalty is to yourself. After turning away your tormentor, they'll try to manipulate others. Let the truth be known.

An older person feels like they've become a burden. Asking their advice can improve their mood. Although this member of the group can no longer take care of themselves, they still have the benefit of experience. Stop dismissing their suggestions as old fashioned. It's difficult for you to be demonstrative. Learn to get in touch with your emotions. You may not realise it, but friends, relatives and colleagues have been hurt by your aloof behaviour. The sooner you show your affection, the more rewarding your personal life will become.

Condemning yourself for being tired will make a bad situation worse. Give yourself credit for all the progress you've made. Return to a hobby or sport that has always given you pleasure. Instead of trying to tackle a huge list of chores, run one errand. Self-centred behaviour is causing great resentment. If you want to help a romantic partner or child, you must make a personal sacrifice. Becoming the chief earner or paying for lessons will be a small price to pay to make your loved one more comfortable.