You've got big plans, but may have to put them on hold due to family obligations. It's easy to get frustrated, but remember all the sacrifices your family has made for your welfare. Never fear; you'll have another chance to spring into action. Right now, you've got to provide a secure foundation for your loved ones. This may require taking a few days off of work or turning down a job offer. Stay positive.

Beware of engaging in gossip, or your comments could come back to haunt you. The more you talk behind people's backs, the less others will trust you. Perhaps you should examine why you love discussing scandalous intrigues. Has your life become boring? Are you dissatisfied with your own progress? Maybe you feel guilty about your own choices. Whatever the reason, you're better off focusing on your own life than prying into everybody else's secrets.

A friend may ask you to assume their financial responsibilities, which is a mistake. Although you're not a particularly materialistic person, you do value your relationships. Lending money to a pal or signing a promissory note on their behalf will only put strain on your relationship. Be especially wary if your loved one resorts to emotional blackmail. If they are so desperate, they need more than money; they need counselling.

Beware of becoming too hard on yourself, or you could crack under the pressure. Although it is great that you want to do a perfect job, it's also unrealistic. Right now, you're working under some very stressful circumstances. It's simply not possible to turn out the quality of work you'd like. If an authority figure becomes nasty with you, try explaining your situation as calmly and clearly as possible. Everybody is a little edgy today.

Somebody else's belief system can make you really angry or upset. Rather than forcing a confrontation, ask yourself why you find such ideas so threatening. Maybe it's because you see flaws in your own philosophy. That's perfectly fine; nobody's value system is entirely air tight. By trying to see the merits in other people's views, you'll feel less threatened. Start the New Year with an open mind and an open heart, and joy will follow.

You have profound needs, but none of your friends seem to realise it. Perhaps it's because you are always underplaying your impulses. The next time somebody asks you what you want, state the truth in a firm, clear way. Better yet, don't wait for anybody to ask; just announce your desires without any prompting at all. This is a good habit to get into this year, particularly if you want healthier and happier relationships.

Disagreements with a business or romantic partner can take a toll on your public image. It's hard to remain poised when you have so many unresolved issues. Normally, you try to avoid angry confrontations. Today, however, you may want to force one. You need an outlet for all of your pent-up anger and frustration. That doesn't mean you have to be abusive, but it does mean you should stop massaging inflated egos.

Health problems could be getting in the way of your romantic life. If you don't feel good about yourself, it will be difficult for you to attract the kind of partner you want. If you're already in a relationship, you need to stay trim and fit in order to keep your passion alive. Just a few minutes of exercise a day may be enough to improve your self-image. Treat your body right.

Reckless behaviour won't fill the need for excitement in your life. What you really require is an intimate relationship. Such a prospect may be frightening for a free spirit like you, but it is essential. Stop playing games with someone who has shown interest in you. Voice your honest opinion about serious subjects, and inquire after their views. You may find you have much more in common than you originally thought.

Family quarrels affect you more strongly than outsiders suspect. Although you paint a convincing picture of emotional stability, the truth is actually more complex. Yes, you can handle upsets better than most other people, but they make a much deeper impact on your psyche. Don't let a stupid fight inhibit you from expressing love and affection toward friends and family. These people need to know how you really feel.

Conflicts with a neighbour or close relative could take a toll on your health. Release any built up stress with a visit to the gym. If you're too tired to work out, treat yourself to a massage. Your body is very sensitive to toxic environments. If you don't give it the opportunity to release these poisons from your system, they will build up until you are totally drained of energy. Be good to yourself.

Arguments over money could drive a wedge between you and a young person. Remember neither one of you is totally innocent in this equation. Both of you hold attitudes toward finances that are somewhat unhealthy. Don't be ashamed; everybody suffers from these skewed perceptions. The trick is to acknowledge these attitudes, and then work to change them. Be the first one to extend the olive branch; fighting is a waste of time.