Going against the grain gets you in trouble. It's better to adopt a more cooperative attitude, especially towards rivals. You've carved a comfortable niche. Your enemies resent this level of independence. When you need their help, they will be reluctant to give it. That's why it's critical to extend an olive branch. Be willing to relinquish some of your demands to accommodate others. This isn't weak; it's smart. Your gentle approach will pave the way for new friendships.

If you've been struggling with an addiction or obsession, it's time to apply the brakes. It doesn't really matter this means entering a rehabilitation programme or undergoing counselling. The important thing is to get the help you need to lead a happy, sane life. Are you dealing with someone who is abusing alcohol or drugs? It's time to issue an ultimatum. The longer you subject yourself to their bad behaviour, the harder it will be to realise your own goals.

It's time to review your social life. If you've been going out night after night without a break, cut back your commitments. You'll have a much better time at parties when you feel rested and centred. Is a certain group of friends getting on your nerves? It's because you've grown and they have not. Don't hesitate to distance yourself from people with limited thinking. You'll fare much better with those who share your intellectual curiosity. Join a club devoted to your favourite hobby.

Scale back your professional plans. Unexpected obligations will force you to change your priorities. Pretending nothing is wrong is not an option. You must confront the source of trouble, even if it means taking time off work. If you're offered a job that will require you to travel at a moment's notice, turn it down. You are needed at home. Ignoring the needs of a relative will be disastrous. Cultivating a happy home life is a much better strategy.

It will be necessary to put a programme of study on hold. Although you yearn to break out of your shell, nagging errands require your attention. Take this opportunity to file paperwork, close an estate or make arrangements for an ailing relative. If you're relocating, you should take the semester off so you can carefully pack and feather your new nest. Living out of boxes will undermine your ability to study. Give yourself the time to make a smooth transition.

You're starting to reconsider a financial arrangement. Being dependent on an unreliable person is making you anxious. You'd much rather make it on your own, even if it means taking a second job or working more intensely than ever before. Contrary to what you think, you are capable of earning a good living. Staying in a lacklustre romance or remaining in a terrible job is unnecessary. You have the power to strike on your own; take the plunge.

A partnership won't consume your attention as it has in the past. You'll have an opportunity to attend to your own needs, which is a welcome change. If you've been working with a client, they may go on holiday. This will allow you to attend to little jobs that have slipped through the cracks. Return messages, run errands and have equipment repaired. You're in the driver's seat. Go ahead and map your future. The journey will be more enjoyable than expected.

Your colleagues won't be helpful. Don't rely on them to get ahead. If you are facing an impending deadline, you'll have to work overtime to finish it. Are you looking for work? You could finally land a position, but it won't be permanent. Instead of dwelling on your disappointment, count your blessings. Having a temporary position with steady hours will allow you to make plans with friends and catch up on errands. There's also the added benefit of earning a regular paycheque.

The sense of urgency that has dogged your love life will die down. You may decide to take a break from a demanding partner. Alternatively, you could choose to withdraw from the dating scene. If you're in a serious relationship, your amour may become more content, ceasing to issue ultimatums or behave in outrageous ways. Whatever the changes ahead, it will give you a chance to rest, relax and get your bearings. Take this opportunity to return to a rewarding artistic pursuit.

Home life will settle down, much to your relief. It's possible that noisy neighbours will move away or a nearby construction project will be completed. Whatever the reason for this peaceful interlude, it will promote good health. Spending more time on domestic pursuits will be a blessing, not a burden. Have you been trying to find another place to live? Relaunch your search. You'll be able to find better prospects than you've seen in recent months. Don't be afraid to explore new areas.

Be very wary about making public statements. Unloading on social media will come back to haunt you. When in doubt, wait a full day before responding to a provocative comment. It's always best to give a noncommittal response, even when you're justifiably angry. Simply saying 'that's interesting' to an insulting remark will take the wind out of a bully's sails. People will admire your ability to maintain grace under fire. You have so many more important things to do than argue with trolls.

You'll have to make some adjustments to your spending habits. Impulse purchases will get you into trouble. It's fine to enjoy the occasional indulgence, but be mindful about it. When you yearn for a treat, review your options. Pick something that will give you long term pleasure. Stay away from eye catching fads. Throwing away money on status symbols that will look dated and foolish within the year is a terrible waste. Give yourself a full day before making any big buys.