Stop overanalysing a romantic relationship. Just enjoy it. If you're single, it may be because you have too many preconceived notions of your ideal partner. Release your requirements and be open to meeting someone who is delightfully unique. Someone will appear who defies all expectations. Don't feel pressured to buy someone's affection. If you want to strengthen a relationship, you should spend more quality time together. Expensive gifts can come later. Right now, it's critical to establish trust.

You won't be able to talk reason to a stubborn relative. You're dealing with someone who is intent on taking an impractical path. Let them make their own choices. You may be forced to eat their words when this family member finds success. This isn't a good time to sign a contract. You'll feel pressured to give away more than you can afford. If you can hang on just another few days, you should be able to strike a much better deal.

Arguing with someone who is very emotional is a losing proposition. Instead of challenging their accusations, sit quietly while they vent their anger. After they've expressed their grief, rage and sorrow, you can talk sensibly. Be as compassionate as possible. A health problem requires attention. Make an appointment for a medical consultation, even if it means taking time off work. The sooner you pinpoint the source of the trouble, the better you will feel. Follow your doctor's instructions to the letter.

Listening to your inner critic is a losing proposition. You must overcome your fears to realise your potential. Get into the habit of replacing negative feedback with affirmations. This will seem silly at first, but if you stick with it, confidence will replace self-doubt. Resist the temptation to take a risk. It may seem like everything will work in your favour, but that's not the case. There are some hidden aspects to a proposition or relationship that will cost you dearly.

You're not communicating as effectively as you would like. That's because you're so passionate about your subject that you skip over important details. Talk to a detail-oriented friend or colleague about improving your presentation. Take their feedback seriously; it will fix the problems. A relative is trying to influence an important decision. Keep anyone who behaves like this at arm's length. Falling victim to a guilt trip will cause you to go against your own interests. Let their messages go to voicemail.

You won't be able to move forward with a personal matter until you get official approval. A bureaucratic agency moves slowly, so it's important to submit paperwork as soon as possible. Befriending an official from this office may speed along your application. Someone will promise something they can't possibly deliver. Take these assurances with a pinch of salt. If there's an important job to be done, carry it out yourself. Then you won't be disappointed. Give yourself plenty of time to carry out this work.

Working with a group is frustrating. You're dealing with distasteful people who would rather grab attention than cultivate style. Your superior ideas will be shouted down as boring. If you want creative fulfilment, you'll have to launch your own creative project. Trying to fill an emotional void with material goods is a mistake. When you feel lost, turn your attention to activities you enjoy. Visiting a museum, walking through the park or spending time with your pets will replace yearning with contentment.

It's hard to find common ground with your employer. You have very different ideas of how business should be conducted. Instead of wasting valuable energy on challenging their ideas, carry them out as quickly as possible. Look for another position in your free time. Coming on too strong will drive people away. If you want something, state your needs and then make a strategic retreat. Showing respect for people's boundaries will win the support you want. You may not be victorious now, but you will be later.

Although you have expert knowledge, people aren't willing to pay for it. They'd rather hire cut rate professionals who don't have a full understanding of their subject. Instead of letting your resentment build, look for more reliable ways to make a living. Someone will ask you to keep a secret for them. Don't agree to this plan. The last thing you want is to cover up a deception. Doing so will hurt innocent people. When in doubt, always obey your conscience.

Arguments over joint finances will put pressure on a close relationship. You're the type who likes to save money for a rainy day. Your other half prefers to indulge their love of luxury. Create a game plan where you contribute to savings without feeling deprived. Your nearest and dearest doesn't understand what is best for you. They'll try to discourage you from following your heart's desire. These friends don't want you to be unhappy; they're afraid you're on a crash course for disaster. Follow your heart.

Stop trying to convert your business or romantic partner to your point of view. The more you press your point, the greater their resentment will be. This isn't an issue that's serious enough to prompt a breakup. You can stay together if you're respectful. If you make a mistake, be willing to admit it. Clinging stubbornly to a failed proposal will reflect badly on you. Announce that you were wrong, apologise to the people affected and then change course.

Finding a satisfying job will take patience. Applying for jobs through conventional means will be an exercise in futility. It's better to cultivate contacts in your desired field. Joining a professional organisation or attending job fairs can also be helpful. Resist the temptation to break the rules. You'll be forced to pay a big penalty. It's better to follow the letter of the law, even if it's annoying and time consuming. Just because everyone else does as they please doesn't mean you should follow suit.