Uncontrollable desires will cause you to say something regrettable. Maybe this is a blessing in disguise. After all, it's better to know the truth than be kept wondering. If your ego has been bruised, be kind to yourself. Treat yourself to some comfort food, watch your favourite movies and luxuriate in your pyjamas. If your thoughts become destructive, seek out a sympathetic friend. Isolating yourself when you feel depressed is always a bad idea.

Some rich people you know might make you feel bad about your earning abilities. At times like these, you need to remember your personal worth has nothing to do with how much you earn. So many people who do important work are underpaid and unappreciated. Teachers, nurses, social workers their services are vital, but their pay is minimal. Keep this in mind the next time you feel bad you can't pay for everyone's dinner or spoil someone with lavish gifts.

You're out of your depth, and might as well admit it; if you need help, ask for it or you'll make an embarrassing mistake in public. No one will hold it against you if you admit ignorance in a certain area. Actually, they'll admire your honesty. A job you applied for may be awarded to someone else. Try not to be jealous. The person who got the position is much more qualified. In the end, you would have been overwhelmed by the responsibilities.

Jumping to conclusions will result in a terrible mistake. If you hear a disturbing rumour, remain calm. Wait until you get the facts of the situation or an innocent party will be branded a villain and you'll be held responsible. A well intentioned friend, neighbour or relative may try to impose their beliefs onto you. Be firm but clear when resisting these overtures. You have every right to ask for your political or religious views to be respected.

Surrounding yourself with a bunch of admirers has its drawbacks. Sometimes, you wonder if you'll ever get an honest reaction from your loved ones. If you need constructive criticism, approach a colleague whom you respect. Their comments may sting at first, but refrain from lashing out. Instead, let these remarks sink in. Then, when your ego has a chance to recover, you'll be able to make improvements to a flawed project and make it perfect.

Flirting at work could compromise your reputation. Behave in a professional manner at all times, even if your boss, colleague or assistant is sending out sexual signals. That way, no one can accuse you of using underhanded methods to get ahead. If you're being sexually harassed, report the problem to human resources. The more documentation you have, the better protected you will be. There is no reason you have to put up with such nonsense in this day and age.

Saying one thing and doing another will cause a young person to lose respect for you. If a youngster has questions about sex, drug abuse or other ethical matters, be honest. Preaching platitudes is all well and good, provided you follow your own advice. If you're caught in the throes of an addiction or are having an affair your words will ring false. Think back to when an adult let you down when you were your young friend's age. Don't make the same mistake.

You'll have to pay dearly for leading a lifestyle you can't afford. It's time to tackle your debts, even if it means living on a shoestring budget. If you're not sure how to begin, contact a financial advisor. This expert will help consolidate your bills and negotiate a lower interest rate. You will feel guilt pangs when you're not able to buy a youngster expensive gifts. Make up for it by spending quality time together. It's more precious than gold.

Lately, you've been taking your best friend or romantic partner for granted. Just because you're having problems doesn't give you license to neglect a loved one's needs. Take a few steps back and view the situation objectively. Yes, you've recently experienced a terrible disappointment, but that doesn't make the world revolve around you. Think of something special you can do for your favourite person in the world. He or she deserves a break and will appreciate your generosity.

Things at work have become downright unpleasant. An abusive colleague has been allowed to mouth off, and everybody is miserable as a result. If you don't tackle this problem, nobody else will. Invite them to lunch and explain why their behaviour is intolerable. Be as kind and gentle with your observations as possible, but be clear. Give examples of how their words have hurt and upset the group, and offer alternative ways to handle their frustration.

You want to be petted and pampered, but nobody is inclined to do so. Instead of pouting, find a way to satisfy your own needs. Go for a massage, buy yourself a new outfit or get a spa treatment. When you treat yourself well, everyone else will follow suit. Don't feel guilty about spending money on your own pleasure. After all, you work hard. Why shouldn't you enjoy the fruits of your labour? This is not the best time to ask for a raise, though.

You'll have to practice tough love with a relative who keeps taking advantage of your generosity. By putting your foot down now, you'll avoid disaster later. This family member is so used to getting her demands met that she is engaging in risky behaviour. As far as she is concerned, if something bad happens, you'll be there to clean up the mess. It's time to disabuse her of this notion. If you don't, she'll get in trouble with the authorities.