Resist the urge to overindulge a child. Although you want to be popular and loved, it's important to establish boundaries, too. When there aren't consequences for breaking the rules, chaos ensues. If you don't have any children, beware of being too soft on yourself. Trying to dull emotional pain with food and drink will compound the problem. Face your troubles and make some changes. Stop letting a manipulator take advantage of your soft heart. Demand to be treated with the respect you deserve.

Beware of intellectual snobbery. Just because someone hasn't received much formal education doesn't mean they are ignorant. You will be surprised what this colleague can do when given a chance. They've accumulated impressive knowledge through personal study. When you find you are out of your depth, ask this fellow worker for guidance. They'll be happy to fill in the gaps. If you play your cards right, the two of you could form a partnership that enhances both of your career prospects.

Don't confuse your personal worth with your bank balance. Everybody has a part to play in a group endeavour. Take this opportunity to give thanks for the people who are working behind the scenes. They don't get much credit for what they do, which makes them feel diminished. By drawing attention to them, you'll promote a feeling of togetherness. This will enhance everyone's performance and make work seem more like play. Someone who plays the Diva should be told to tone things down.

You have a tendency to overestimate your importance at work. Refusing to carry out certain duties could result in dismissal. Don't irritate your superiors with a bad attitude. While it's true you're talented and capable, there are other people in the organisation who are also gifted. Any of these rivals would be happy to take your place. Are you unemployed? It may be difficult to find work in your desired industry. Be willing to take a job in an emerging field.

Put an end to a passive-aggressive dynamic. A relative who always lays guilt trips on you should be stopped. Don't give in to their requests for help. You work hard for your money. There's no reason you should give it to someone who is perfectly capable of having a job. Every time you talk, they have plenty of stories outlining unfair treatment. Stop believing these fairy tales. People with persecution complexes are often their own worst enemies. That's the case with this family member.

An unreliable friend is getting on your nerves. You're afraid what will happen if you confront them. There's probably a good reason for this concern, as they are hypersensitive. The fact you can't be honest about your feelings is a big red flag. It may be better to quietly detach from this relationship. Stop bending over backwards to accommodate their needs. You have a life, too. Fill it with people and activities that restore your energy, rather than deplete it.

Be realistic if you're trying to economise. Shopping for bargains on small items while buying extravagant gifts is an exercise in futility. It's better to establish spending and savings accounts. Once your savings start to mount, you can ease spending restrictions. There is a good chance you will stick to your frugal plan. The prospect of putting a dent in your savings account won't be very attractive. At that stage, conserving resources will be an enjoyable challenge, rather than a horrible chore.

Don't expect everyone to conform to your beliefs. Even if you find someone else's ideas offensive, you shouldn't criticise them. The chances to convert them are very slim. You have better things to do with your time. Of course, when they levy offensive remarks, it's a different story. At that stage, you should set firm boundaries. Never allow anyone in your sphere of influence to be bullied or shamed. Fortunately, you're strong enough to stand up to abusive blowhards.

An intimate relationship is withering on the vine. If you're going to stay together, it's important to inject some passion into the proceedings. Go on dates, devote more time to one another and establish romantic little rituals. Get into the habit of eating one meal together each day. Put a ban on answering phone calls and watching television during this sacred time. Being able to focus on each other can cause your mutual affection to come flooding back.

A lawsuit from an unfulfilled legal or financial commitment could occur. Try not to let this issue overwhelm you. Don't give away much emotional energy to this problem. File the necessary paperwork, show up at scheduled appointments and keep careful records of all the proceedings. When you've fulfilled these obligations, turn your attention to more rewarding endeavours. Spend time with your family, finish a home repair job or make some entries in your diary.

Unstable employment shouldn't be a source of embarrassment. The job market is erratic. It's hard to find a steady position. If you've had difficulty finding rewarding work, stay calm. Look for other ways to find fulfilment. These days, many people are being challenged to separate their ego from their professional life. Who you are is not what you do for a living. Define yourself by relationships, hobbies and values instead. The paying opportunities you seek will arrive when you need them most.

Don't let disappointments in love make you bitter. You can find a fulfilling relationship so long as you make a few changes. If you've been involved with a series of aloof rebels, try to find someone who will be more open and affectionate. Dispense with glamorous egotists and go with a down to earth nurturer instead. Are you currently in a relationship that is experiencing difficulty? Stop putting so much emphasis on physical intimacy. Sit down for an intimate discussion instead.