This is one of those rare times when you second guess yourself. Your head is telling you one thing, but your heart says another. Move towards the light. If you've been stuck in a dead end relationship, it's time to break things off. Don't stay with somebody just because you feel sorry for them. In the end, it's kinder to be honest. You hate to be hurtful to anyone you've loved, but sometimes it's necessary, especially if they keep laying guilt trips on you.

You're getting mixed signals from a relative. Your family relative claims everything is fine, but really needs help. Be ready to push past their claims and discover the true situation. It's possible you will have to find care for an elderly person who shouldn't do heavy lifting. Alternatively, you might have to get another babysitter who is more sympathetic to a youngster's needs. Whatever the problem, you are capable of handling it in a kind, compassionate manner.

It will be difficult to find the money you require to finance an outing. You're better off staying home and saving your pennies, for you will need them for an important expense. Don't let your friends make you feel guilty about dropping out of an expensive trip. It's hard enough missing all the fun; the last thing you want is to be shamed into spending funds you don't have. The good news is you will have another opportunity to join these friends later.

Don't let emotion get in the way of making an important decision. People are relying on you for guidance. If you play favourites, they'll lose their respect for you. It's better to do what is best for the group, instead of massage individual egos. A few people will complain about their assignments. Refuse to reconsider them unless there is a serious scheduling conflict. This is your chance to set a precedent. If people see you aren't easily swayed, they won't ask you to make exceptions for them.

You long to retire from public view, even if everyone wants an audience with you. It's flattering to be popular, but you're tired of all the strain it brings. Normally, you love being surrounded by admirers. Now there is work to be done and you can't pause to socialise. This will cause some hurt feelings. Be clear about your needs. If you tell people you are swamped with work and can't deal with interruptions, they won't take your silence personally.

Being responsive to the feelings of others can get you in trouble. Although you want to be sensitive, you must carry out procedure. This means going ahead with a plan that is inconvenient for a large group. Prepare to encounter resistance and even hostility. Having a calm response prepared will help, but it won't eliminate the problem. Take a deep breath and stay strong. Well timed breaks can bring relief. Arrange to meet upbeat friends after work. They'll restore your good humour.

Going with the crowd shouldn't be your primary goal. An intimate relationship is unorthodox in many ways, but it's also fulfilling. Why mess with a good formula? Outsiders will pressure you to take the traditional route, but they really don't understand the needs of you and your partner. Stay true to your beliefs, even if it means being teased. Some people are really threatened by unconventional behaviour. Don't let their insecurity undermine your happiness. Living well is the best revenge.

You feel very strongly about certain beliefs, which can lead to arguments. Stay away from controversial subjects at work. A contentious colleague will try to bait you with provocative remarks, so be ready to give lots of noncommittal smiles. Your boss will appreciate your mature attitude and could give you a promotion as a result. Look at this situation as a chance to prove your ability to stay cool under fire. If you're suffering from headaches or stomach pains, practice some relaxation techniques.

Love and sex are not necessarily the same thing. Knowing the difference can save you a lot of heartache. If you're interested in a casual physical relationship, be honest with the object of your affection. Even if you are direct, there is a good chance your partner will want a deeper commitment. This sort of thing happens when you are intimate with somebody else. Be aware of the effect your attitude can have on the people you let into your life.

Try not to rely too heavily on your best friend, lover, or business partner. Learning to perform some of the jobs they traditionally do will be good for your relationship. It will also deepen your respect for your other half. If you're single and want a relationship, try being less aggressive about finding romance. The right person will come into your life at the appropriate moment. Why waste your time pursuing candidates who aren't worthy of your time and attention?

It's never easy to get distressing news about your health. Try to take this revelation with a pinch of salt. Changing your routine will be difficult, but it will bring relief from a nagging problem. Take your cues from someone who is dealing with a health issue, but rarely complains about it. You have every right to feel upset, but be selective about sharing these emotions. One or two sympathetic friends will be supportive. Lean on them when you feel your willpower weakening.

You long to take a risk but should stick to the familiar path right now. It would be a shame to lose your hard earned money on a scheme that is doomed to fail. If you want to confess a crush on somebody, wait for a more appropriate time to confess it. Let your beloved's feelings develop before springing the prospect of a romance on them. During this transitional period, you will decide you are better off as friends.