You're so preoccupied with a loss that you fail to see the many blessings you enjoy. Change your outlook; at the end of each day, write down five things for which you are grateful. This will help you rest, relax and rejuvenate at bedtime. In the morning, you'll awaken feeling optimistic and energised. When your thoughts become bleak, turn them back to a person or possession that makes you happy. So many people would envy your position.

Be sure to double check an address before heading to a meeting. It's possible the venue will be changed at the last minute. Keep your mobile charged in case there is some confusion about where you should be. Someone who asks you for a loan may be trying to finance a bad habit. Keep your hard earned money where it belongs: In the bank. Your refusal will seem cold and callous to onlookers, but they don't know the truth of the matter. Maintain a dignified silence.

It feels like you're the subject of unwanted scrutiny. If you made a mistake or cut some corners, admit it. You may lose a valued position, but you will retain your dignity. Let this be a lesson about future endeavours. Although you want to please everybody, that simply isn't possible. Don't bend the rules for people who demand special treatment. If you promised a friend or relative a discount, tell them it's no longer possible. It's the only way to stay out of trouble.

No matter how hard you try, you simply can't accept a friend's political stance. It may be necessary to stay away from each other until an election takes place. You don't want to get into an argument that will drive you permanently apart. Tensions are running high and it's hard to be diplomatic in the face of shocking news. If you've lost all affection for your loved one, grieve this relationship properly. Pretending it doesn't affect you will only compound the tragedy.

An unexpected bill will force you to dip into savings. Your budget is tighter than ever, which is scary. Stop telling yourself you are all alone. By combining resources with others who are hurting, you can get through this difficult time. Don't be too proud to ask for assistance. You'll have an opportunity to repay all the generosity you receive. By that time, you'll have a deeper appreciation of the simple pleasures in life. Extravagant luxuries are overrated.

You won't get the cooperation you need. Try not to be too disappointed when someone turns down your request for help. You can make it on your own, even if it will be a struggle so don't lose heart. It's possible an authority figure will try to blame you for a problem they created. The best way to deal with this disaster is to accept responsibility and rectify the matter as best you can. That way, you can retain a valued customer without harming your own professional reputation.

Take care of your body. If you receive disappointing news regarding your health, don't panic. You'll be able to ease the symptoms by changing your diet and exercise regime. It will take tremendous willpower, but you can overcome this problem. The key is telling your friends and relatives about your new program and what it means for your life. Pretending nothing has changed will cause well meaning people to tempt you into harmful behaviour. Be open and honest about your situation.

It will be necessary to cancel fun plans, which is heartbreaking. Someone who is near and dear to your heart needs help. You couldn't possibly turn away in their hour of need. If you've been fighting with your lover, head off to some secluded hideaway. Connecting with your inner spirit will help you make a difficult decision. You want to make your amour happy, but you can't betray yourself. Stay true to your interests and don't bend to the will of a manipulative partner.

A property transaction looks likely to hit a snag. This could be a blessing in disguise. You don't want to get sucked into an unscrupulous deal. Yes, it will be tremendously inconvenient to change plans at this juncture. In a few months you'll realise you dodged a bullet. Fortunately, you're extremely flexible and can switch gears more easily than most. Avoid clashing swords with a contentious relative. Arguing with this troublemaker isn't worth the stress. Put your energy to a more pleasurable pursuit, like exercise.

You'll have to break bad news to a loved one. Be as tactful as possible and be prepared for an angry outburst. It's only natural that your friend is devastated. Take heart in the knowledge that you are paving the way for a therapeutic recovery. Think what would happen if they heard this information through an indifferent source. If you get turned down for a job, take heart. A better opportunity will arrive, so long as you keep sending out applications and hope for the best.

A banking error may force you to scramble for money. You might want to keep a little extra cash on you, just in case of an emergency. A child who asks for an expensive toy will have to be refused. It breaks your heart to deprive them of this trinket, but it can't be helped. Maybe the two of you can devise a strategy to save for this item. By the time they have enough money to afford this trinket; it will have lost its allure.

Discussing plans with your family makes you nervous and irritable. You're tired of being judged. Instead of trying to sell your plan, just present it in a matter of fact way. Don't defend your decision to pushy relatives. Part of the trouble is you have been so willing to accommodate these bullies in the past. Once they see you're determined to take a certain path, they'll back off. If you have to move away to realise a cherished dream, so be it.