Don't overestimate your importance at work. Although you're undeniably talented, that doesn't absolve you from following the rules. If you're tired of being reined in by an oppressive authority figure, you should start your own business. Until then, though, it's important to colour inside the lines. Check your temper when it comes to dealing with police officials. An angry outburst could get you in lots of trouble. Be tender with a female friend who is very emotional.

Expecting other people to conform to your moral code is unrealistic. You've got to live and let live. If a person's outlook offends you, stay silent. You may change your mind about this character after you've spent more time together. Sometimes the most annoying associates make the greatest teachers. You may not get a lot of leeway regarding a legal matter. You've got to stay within the bounds of the law, even if it causes great inconvenience.

Tempers are running high, and you could get into an argument with a lover. If you are single, it may be because you are overly abrasive. Maybe it's time to take that chip off your shoulder. Yes, you've been wounded in the past, but so have a lot of other people. Put the past behind you. Get into the habit of meeting new people. The more outgoing you are, the easier it will be to find someone who appreciates your wit, charm and intelligence.

A friend, lover or business partner may be unwilling to grant you a favour. Try not to dwell on your disappointment. Attending to this responsibility yourself could be a valuable lesson. You're a lot more capable than you realise. This isn't a good time to sign legal papers. Although you feel pressured to enter into some kind of arrangement, you can't afford to sign all of your rights away. Hold out for a better offer. If you remain calm under pressure, you can strike a good deal.

Work may be more elusive than you'd like. It's probably a good idea to economise. Postpone any expensive purchases, as you may not be able to cover the bills in a few weeks' time. Resist the urge to fill the void with a lot of rich food. There are better ways to find contentment. Listen to music, walk through the park, play with your pets. The best things in life really are free. Learning to live within your means is a worthy pursuit.

Don't let a romantic disappointment spoil your day. Just because they don't respond to your advances doesn't mean you're totally undesirable. There are plenty of people who will respond to your special brand of allure. A child may not be able to live up to your expectations. Instead of telling your young friend what to do, enquire about their interests. You may be astonished to learn which subjects really excite them. You're more alike than you realise.

Nostalgic feelings about the past could be holding you back. It's time to seek new opportunities, especially regarding love. If you're in a relationship, you've got to find ways to grow together. Taking a class with your beloved could reignite your passion for one another. Don't be so quick to denigrate your partner's hobbies. Yes, they could be driving a wedge between you, but it doesn't have to be that way. Try to become more involved with each other's lives.

It's not easy to find people who share your sensibilities. Some people think you are dark and morbid. You prefer to think of yourself as realistic. If you have some unusual interests, who cares? They just add depth and dimension to your character. Granted, your hobbies may drive some people from your door, but you've never been overly concerned about blending in, anyway. Don't make promises you can't keep, particularly when it comes to social commitments.

You are more than your possessions; it may be hard to believe in this materialistic culture, but it's true. It's difficult not to be envious of a friend who has an expensive car or gadget. If you look closely, though, you'll see they don't seem to be any happier for their riches. A job offer may not pay as much as you would like. Still, it's probably a good idea to accept it until something better comes along. Think of this position as a short term solution.

Try not to give your gifts away to people who don't deserve them. In the past, people have taken advantage of your work ethic, letting you assume the lion's share of responsibility. It's time to stop this trend. You have just as much of a right to leisure time as anyone else. If somebody asks you to cover their shift, refuse. You don't need to justify your decision. Sometimes it's more important to protect your interests than maintain your popularity.

Asserting your independence is vital and weaning yourself off of someone's emotional or financial assistance will be painful, but it will also be liberating. It's not that you don't appreciate your friend's help. It's just that you're starting to lose confidence. Contrary to what you may think, you can make it on your own. It's just a matter of making the initial break. Once you've got your bearings, you'll be able to resume a healthier friendship with your benefactor.

Trying to be all things to all people isn't working any longer. You need to say no. At first, people will be astonished by your refusal. They may even be a little resentful of it, but only because they've taken your generosity for granted. Once you become more selective about the jobs you accept, they'll become more grateful for your help. If some friends fall by the wayside, so be it. Relationships founded on obligation are abusive. Move on to greener pastures.