Learning from past experience is the only way to prevent history from repeating itself. If you have a tendency to get involved with the same type of relationships, make a concerted effort to choose different partners. Give someone who seems boring a chance to show you a good time. You'll be astonished at how much fun you can have when you're not being used and abused. Disobey your instincts for the next two weeks.

You're undergoing a powerful transformation which is quite painful. People who had a lot invested in the old you will be resentful of these changes. Refuse to feel guilty about the different path you have chosen. You needed to take this route in order to survive. If friends and family can't understand that, so be it. Give yourself the tender loving care you need to heal. You're turning from a caterpillar into a butterfly.

You'll find yourself quite dependent on a business or romantic partner these next two weeks. This doesn't exactly thrill you, as you are nervous about trusting others right now. Let this be an experiment in releasing fear. By putting your faith in somebody who has proved themselves loyal in the past, you'll have more time to pursue the activities you love. You have to admit assuming too many responsibilities gets tiring.

Feeling useful and productive gives you a full appreciation for the Christmas season. You simply can't enjoy the proceedings from the sidelines. If you're done with all of your shopping, offer to help somebody else with theirs. Host a gift wrapping party. Bake some cakes, and other treats with the kids. Run errands for a sick neighbour. The busier you are, the happier you'll be. Of course, it helps to play festive music while you work.

Your inner child never fails to come out during the festive season. There's something about this magical time that makes you want to shout and play. Take this opportunity to make some handmade decorations for your home or office. If painful memories of past seasons come flooding back, replace them with happier ones. Arrange a special day with someone who loves you. Snuggling in front of the fire can be very healing.

Home is where the heart is, especially during the next two weeks. Hosting a family party brings out the best in you. It's fun coming up with lists of supplies to buy and food to prepare. Don't forget to compile a recording of favourite Carols, as this will keep spirits high. Feeling overwhelmed? Ask relatives for help. They'll be more than happy to pitch in. Why do everything yourself?

Now is the time to mend any broken fences before any serious resentments set in. You've always had a knack for spreading harmony wherever you go. If you'd like to kiss and make up with a lover or relative, extend an olive branch now. You may be surprised at how readily this peace offering is accepted. A short trip out of town gives you added perspective. Head for greener pastures; you could use a change.

The Christmas and New Year period make your priorities appear crystal clear. Spending more time with loved ones should be your first order of business. Be prepared to challenge an authority figure who wants you to keep late hours. No amount of overtime pay can compensate for these precious moments. If you're not able to make more time for your personal life, start putting together a plan that will allow you to do so in the New Year.

You've never been one to wear your heart on your sleeve, but that could all change. The next two weeks will be comprised of tremendous highs and lows. Resist the urge to numb out when things get intense. By allowing yourself to experience these events fully, you'll gain a new understanding of where it is you need to be going in order to be happy. There's no better gift to give yourself.

You feel the suffering of others keenly, but aren't sure how to alleviate their pain and while you can't solve social problems, you can shine a little light into the darkness. Volunteering at a charitable organisation or donating resources to a good cause will make you feel less powerless. As you perform more and more kind deeds your view of the world being hostile will change. Follow your generous instincts and see where they lead.

Creating a surrogate family from friends will be easy between now and the New Year. Purchasing presents and preparing for the weeks ahead is often stressful. By surrounding yourself with people who admire and appreciate you, you'll deflect any criticisms that would normally chill you to the core. This is a great time to plan a huge party. Encourage guests to bring along their pals. You're sure to meet some wonderful new people this way.

A strong drive for achievement marks the next two weeks, so let it catapult you to victory. Send out those CV's, hone your interviewing skills, and apply for as many jobs as possible. The wider you spread your net, the more fish you will catch. Don't be afraid to try for positions that seem out of your league. Your tendency to underestimate your talents has caused you to miss golden opportunities in the past.