It's tempting to use your sex appeal to gain power over others, but don't do it. You wouldn't want to destroy a friend's trust. If you're determined to have things go your way, resort to direct methods. That way, nobody can accuse you of tricking them into a bad decision. Sugar-coating a problematic financial situation is a mistake. If you sense there is trouble ahead, talk to your partner now, while there is still time.

Going along with an authority figure for the sake of avoiding an argument is a mistake. You've got to go on record as disapproving of an ill-conceived plan. Otherwise, you will be made a scapegoat when it comes time to hand out blame. You don't have to make a big show of your opposition. Just voice your concerns quietly. Expressing them in a carefully worded memo will also help. Protect your interests.

Flouting social convention may give you a few laughs, but it will end in disaster. Your irreverent ways will disappoint someone you want to impress. Granted, the circumstances you are forced to deal with are absurd. That doesn't give you a right to make fun of people's time-honoured traditions and beliefs. By being respectful and polite, you'll emerge from this situation smelling like a rose. Summon your poise and cut the sarcasm.

Spoiling a child or love interest will only lead to trouble in the long run, so don't do it. You can't buy someone's love with expensive presents. The next time you're tempted to spend lavishly, offer your time instead. At first, this change in attitude will upset your friend, who has come to rely on you to satisfy their every whim. In time they'll appreciate you as a person, rather than a benefactor.

The good old days aren't as wonderful as you make them out to be. If you're honest with yourself, you'll acknowledge you had many of the same problems then as you do now. The difference is you've been forced to adapt to some external changes. The sooner you look for the silver lining to this cloud, the happier you will be. Nothing remains constant, especially with relationships. Move and grow with the times.

Don't let pride get in the way of forming productive work relationships. While it's true you have superior knowledge and skills, it is also true that your colleagues have unique talents, too. By joining forces, you'll end any anger or resentment that's been poisoning your workplace. That may not seem so important now, but it will when you're feeling lonely and discouraged. Make some friendly overtures. Persistence is paramount.

You've always had a hard time with commitment, and that's especially true now. Resist the temptation to string a love interest along for the sake of security. Sure, it's nice having a back-up date for those last-minute parties, but consider the long-term effects of your behaviour. Is all this leading to a painful break-up that could otherwise be avoided? If so, nip this dalliance in the bud now, when it will cause relatively little pain.

Lavishing yourself with lots of expensive gifts won't ease the pain of a family conflict. True, your relatives aren't giving you the kindness and consideration you deserve. That doesn't mean you should make up for this loss by plunging yourself into debt. The next time you feel snubbed or misunderstood, make an entry in your diary. Take a walk in the park. Spend quality time on yourself. The effects will be more rewarding than a shopping spree.

Never underestimate the importance of etiquette, especially when meeting new people. If you were never taught good table manners or social niceties, you can always read up on the subject. Having a grasp of the proper thing to do will enable you to make a favourable impact with very little effort. First impressions mean everything right now. Have a few interesting topics of conversation ready in case you meet someone new.

You can't be too discriminating when it comes to admitting people into your private circle. A person who has betrayed your trust in the past will do it again. Sure, it's hard to resist their persuasive charms, but consider how much pain this character has caused you in the past. If you're seeking companionship, why not pair up with a loyal colleague? The two of you have lots more in common than you think.

Adding a few notches to your bedpost can be lots of fun, but consider the effects on your partner. You may see your relationship as casual, but they'll view it in a more serious light. Keep this in mind before making any serious overtures. If you're already in a relationship, try being a little more sensitive toward your mate. It's especially important not to embarrass your lover in public. Take their feelings into consideration.

While your idealism is admirable, it's important to consider whether it's realistic. Think about if past relationships have benefited from your lofty expectations. Instead of waiting for your dream lover to rescue you from a life of drudgery, help yourself instead. Whether this means furthering your education, looking for a new job, or breaking a bad habit is immaterial. The important thing is to recognise happiness lies within.