Someone who broke a rule for a good reason should be treated with compassion. Making an example of this individual will backfire spectacularly. If your boss is pressuring you to impose a penalty, appeal to their logic. Tell them that this move will create bad publicity for everyone involved. After making a logical appeal, you'll be able to find a humane solution to this problem. It's always important to look at the big picture before rendering a decision like this one.

A fear of intimacy is undermining your happiness. Don't be afraid to let down your defences with someone who is kind, sympathetic and thoughtful. Together, you have a relationship that is personally empowering. With the help of your amour, you'll be able to conquer fears and realise goals. If you already have a partner, try being more open and honest with them. Discuss your hopes and fears. Formulate a plan that appeals to both of you and then work towards it. Two heads are better than one.

You're very cautious about getting involved in a serious relationship. As someone who cherishes your independence, you don't want to be tied down by someone who wants to know your every move. This is a very narrow view of relationships. You can find love with a person who is similarly self-sufficient. Although your bond will be unconventional, it will work for you. Are you already in love? You'll have to strike a healthier balance between your professional and private lives.

You're bogged down with boring chores, limiting your ability to explore. Although you long to get an advanced degree, travel and write, you can't until you find someone to cover for you. The sooner you locate a substitute, the happier you will be. Don't worry about being entirely replaced. That won't happen. Everybody knows you are the most conscientious, caring person in the group. Your absence will be sorely felt. By the time you come back, everyone will treat you with more respect.

Usually, you have no trouble relaxing and enjoying yourself. Right now, it's hard to have fun. You're worried about money. Until you're able to build some financial reserves, it will be difficult to appreciate your leisure time. Don't buy into the idea you have to have a lot of expensive luxuries to be happy. Focus on simple pleasures, like a good home cooked meal or a long soak in a scented bath. Slowly but surely, your irritation will subside and you'll be back to your joyous self.

You're the one who is expected to be the disciplinarian. This role is getting tiresome. It's no fun being the bad guy all the time. Instead of staying angry, stop participating in this game. By refusing to instil order onto a chaotic situation, you'll force a change. Someone who is inconvenienced by the disruption will finally come forward and enforce the rules. While you're waiting for this change to take place, you'll be nervous. Don't let your anxiety prompt you to backslide.

A grim outlook is driving luck from your door. The best way to attract love, money and opportunity is to project optimism. Contrary to popular belief, you can will yourself to be cheerful. Start by listening to upbeat music. Spend time with people who make you laugh. Steer clear of toxic environments. Slowly but surely, the gloom will lift and you'll become excited about the future. At that point, you'll get a fabulous offer that makes you smile with pleasure.

You want to err on the side of caution as far as spending is concerned. Unfortunately, being too frugal could actually work against your interests. If you don't repair an appliance, you'll end up spending more money on emergency measures. Bite the bullet and purchase a new model. Choose one that has a reputation for longevity. You'll quickly recoup the cost because you use this gadget so much. It may be necessary to go into short term debt, but the end result will be worth it.

You're afraid people won't respect you. Unfortunately, being too rigid about enforcing rules will make a bad impression. Take each disciplinary action on a case by case basis. If someone has a history of defying authority, it's time to inflict a punishment or fine. Are you dealing with a person who made a simple mistake? Issue a warning and move on. It's important to maintain order, but creating a system of fear will make everyone too afraid to do their jobs. Find a delicate balance.

It will be difficult to get the recognition you are due. Someone who is intent on commanding the spotlight will downplay your contributions. Stop letting this happen. Be more vocal about the work you perform. Talk to your boss about what you're doing and show examples. Ask for more projects and be ready to show them off. You have impressive leadership ability. Working in an administrative capacity isn't doing you justice. Go for the type of position that offers you lots of power.

Friends are placing heavy demands on you. Don't feel pressured to meet these unfair expectations. You have a private life. If it isn't convenient to pick someone up at the airport or loan money, say so. You don't have to justify your decision. A person who truly cares will respect your decision. A manipulator will fight you tooth and nail. Don't get drawn into an argument over loyalty. Simply walk away from the relationship. You're tired of being treated like a servant.

You have the power to hurt your enemies. Think twice about using it. Although you are angry at people who picked on you when you were vulnerable, you don't want your own reputation to suffer. Acting in a vindictive way will cause people to lose respect for you. They'll see you as a bully who has made a mountain out of a molehill. Temper justice with mercy. Behave professionally at all times. Above all, never reveal just how much you were affected by these bullies.