Beware of distorting the truth. If someone asks you about an incident, stick to the facts. Don't offer your opinion or speculate about someone's motives. The truth will come out soon enough. Until then, try to remain objective. It's tempting to think the worst of an unlikable person. There are unseen forces at work that will change your opinion in a few days. Until this happens, try being as supportive as possible to people who are suffering from the fallout of this confusing situation.

An organisation will give misleading information, causing a great deal of anger. Don't be quick to believe an upsetting story that serves this group's purpose. Trying to talk sense to people who are upset by the situation will be an exercise in futility. You should just keep your own counsel. In time, members of this group will regret ever being fooled by a charismatic leader. They will wish they had followed your level headed example. Treat these victims with care and compassion.

An unrealistic attitude about your career is causing problems in your personal life. If you're single, it will be difficult to find a partner until you get serious about work. Having a good job will make you more attractive to someone who wants to settle down. Are you already in a relationship? It's time to make some professional sacrifices for the sake of your amour. Whether this means getting a regular position or becoming the sole breadwinner is immaterial. Do what is best for you as a couple.

Following a fad is tempting. You take comfort in following a strict regime that doesn't allow many choices. Eventually, it will become impossible to toe the line. You'll fall prey to temptation and your self-confidence will plunge. If you want to make a chance, do it slowly. Take small steps towards your goal. Be kind with yourself and give yourself rewards for every benchmark you reach. A powerful transformation can occur, but it will happen incrementally. Be patient and stop pushing so hard.

Be honest about a way of life that is no longer working for you. The sooner you face the truth, the better you will feel. Expecting a troubled person to change overnight will lead to continual disappointment. Accept your loved one's weaknesses and change the way you interact. If they have a substance abuse problem, it may be best to avoid them until they get treatment. You have responsibilities to others. Focus on supporting those who appreciate your help instead of someone who keeps making you a scapegoat.

A loved one's deception is upsetting. Part of the problem is an unwillingness to face unpleasant realities from the past. Until you're able to discuss stressful issues like money, intimacy and power in a rational manner, these misunderstandings will continue. When emotion threatens to overwhelm you, take a few deep breaths and remove yourself from the discussion. Come back when you are calm. With a little practice, you'll be able to talk about troubling issues in a calm, mature manner.

If you don't pull your weight at work, relationships with colleagues will suffer. Are you struggling with a health problem? Talk to your employer about it. They'll be willing to accommodate you while you recover. If you're dealing with the ill effects of drinking or eating too much, it's time to get some counselling. Taking better care of your health will make you more productive. Suddenly, you'll have energy for the activities you love. You're sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Regardless of your relationship status, you feel lonely and isolated. Instead of looking to someone else to heal your pain, you should be your own best friend. Make time to do something nice for yourself on a daily basis. Whether this means getting a massage, enjoying a scoop of ice cream or reading for pleasure is immaterial. In addition, you should phase out odious chores, toxic behaviours and self-defeating practices that have been dragging you down.

Your home needs some repairs. If you're renting property that is hopelessly out of date, it's time to move on. Although you will miss your neighbours, it's important to live in a place that makes it easy to rest and recuperate. Are you worried about the extra expense such a move will cost? Think about getting a roommate. Sharing expenses with someone will make it easier to build your savings account back up again. Be willing to entertain any options to improve your domestic life.

You're not sure which direction to take. Although you want to make a fresh start, you're worried what a judgmental loved one will think. Sometimes it's better to walk away from a failed prospect than keep trying to make it work. Do yourself a favour and put an end to your misery. Getting a new job, leaving a hurtful partner or closing a business are among the possibilities. When in doubt, trust your instincts. If your stomach clenches at the thought of maintaining the status quo, make a break.

Be practical about money. Although it's boring to stick to a budget, that's better than being constantly anxious about financial obligations. Are you drowning in debt? Face the truth of the situation. Consolidate your bills, declare bankruptcy or end an expensive habit. If you have to get a more lucrative job, do it. Taking a more demanding position will cut into your leisure time. Make this sacrifice for the sake of your long term future. It's time you had something to show for your efforts.

Stop insisting it's too late to realise a dream. The only thing standing between you and success is yourself. Instead of listening to a litany of self-defeating thoughts, adopt a more positive attitude. Set small goals and congratulate yourself every time you meet one. Stay away from people who are always giving you backhanded compliments. Seek the company of accomplished friends who model responsible behaviour. Things will get better as soon as you stop fearing success.