You look at someone in a whole new light. Try not to be unfair in your assessment of their strengths and weaknesses. The fact is, we all act differently under pressure. By lending support instead of criticism, your relationship will weather any storm you are currently wading through. Be warned of playing psychological games.

A child keeps making the same mistake because they are not receiving the proper incentive to change their ways. Instead of promises, pleas, and punishments, offer a privilege as reward for their progress. This is a fair way to encourage mature behaviour and may even change your approach toward responsibility.

The emotional support you want is not be forthcoming, but stay strong; the important thing is to use your own judgement. After all, you're the one who is going to have to live with this decision. Don't overextend yourself today or you could make a terrible error that will take hours if not years to correct.

Attending to the needs of a relative or friend can be extremely tiring; if you're going to do a good job or deed, you have to be good to yourself. Yes, you may hear some grumbling from the person you're attending, but don't let that bother you. The fact is, you have gone above and beyond the call of duty.

It's time to put an end to your spending spree or you will fall short by the new year. Why do you feel compelled to waste your hard-earned money on silly status symbols or buying peoples’ affections? Your greatest assets are your warmth and humour. Rely on them to make the favourable impression you desire.

Stop coming down so hard on someone you love; you're never going to change this person until you adjust your own approach to them. Visitors have a way of disrupting your routine, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. A guest's observation could open your eyes to a problem that has become very fixed and defocused.

Confiding a secret to someone has unintended results on a relationship; be very selective about information you share. On the bright side, opportunities to express your creative side arrive very soon. You're finally being given the chance to express what's really on your mind and in your heart. Don't hold back.

Don't get too wrapped up in money matters; the resources you need will arrive in time if you maintain a positive attitude. Meanwhile, think of how you can improve the sad life of someone who lives near you but haven’t the comforts you have. The more you give, the more you'll receive. It's a fundamental law of the universe.

Go out of your way to finish up all the petty chores and nuisance jobs that have been piled upon you. Don't despair, however; your travels could cause you to cross paths with someone who has enormous sex appeal directed at you. The sparks between you will be instantaneous; are you ready for an erotic adventure?

Don't put cash down for an expensive purchase before you do some price comparisons. With a little effort, you can work out a deal that saves you handsomely. Your ability to win people over does not extend to your family, however. Be prepared to make concessions to maintain harmony in your household.

A property deal or business transaction is not be as clear-cut as it seems, so be careful about signing any agreements. You're the only person you can trust to act in your best interests. A research project gives you a sense of purpose you haven't felt in a long time. Why not devote your life to this cause?

Listen to what a young person has to tell you; their untainted opinion has more merit than you realise. Why have you been suppressing a desire to break away from your surroundings? The more you deny these feelings, the more difficulties they will cause to a relationship. Be honest with yourself if not with others.