If you're no longer attracted to your lover, why stay together for the sake of appearances? Thinking of moving home? The only solution once you've run out of excuses as to why you should stay put is to find a new place to live! Problems in a close relationship can be resolved if you get the assurances you need to carry on together. Whatever the area: work or play, those who have been giving you a hard time have got to start respecting and appreciating you now.

The self centred attitude of a friend or lover is bound to start frustrating you. Assuming they don't realise how much their laziness is affecting everyone, take the initiative and tell them. You need to talk about compromises; people can't just expect to leave it to others to do all the work for them. Neither can they expect to spend so much time being selfish without losing the respect of people around them.

Profound feelings are likely to occur when a housemate or relative tells of the new plans they're making. You know better than to try to stop someone doing what they want to do. Even if you're against their plans, it is entirely possible a major review of your life will show up areas where you too might benefit from a change. Instead of fighting what's to come, let go and let it flow!

Discussing your professional goals with an experienced colleague will help you better actualise your true potential. Conversations will give you insight into how to solve a major problem with the smallest amount of upheaval. Experiencing symptoms such as headaches, dizziness or moodiness? Meditation will lead to greater awareness and could prove as helpful as the emotional release of tears and anger.

Tension in a love relationship is building; you can let it change by not holding on to negative emotions. Allowing your feelings to influence decisions is not rational and could lead to later regrets. There's no going back once the door is closed today. If, deep down, you don't want to walk out, stay and find a way to work things out between you. In business, your intuition will give you an edge on competitors.

Relationships and activities within the family are significant and will bring a new consciousness and awareness. You may be shocked by some of the darker thoughts a loved one admits to having but this whole experience will help you understand each other better. If someone you love has recently been suffering from regular nightmares, a private discussion might help you get to the root of the problem.

Talking to a counsellor, priest or professional consultant will give you ideas you could never have come up with yourself. A regular routine in your life may have become more like a habit or ritual that is affecting your ability to function properly in other areas. Breaking out of this will be the best thing you can do. You aren't stuck in a rut: it's just a frame of mind. There are many options ahead of you now. All you have to do is make a choice.

It's not always true that the best way to deal with life is to control it. Similarly, trying to manipulate other people for your own gain is dangerous and potentially destructive especially if this involves a love relationship. It would be far better to communicate with those you are having problems with and try to balance forces than to try to take over completely and push other people away.

You need to get back at the helm of your career ship and develop the skills you need for steering. Do you want to continue through life following and observing or do you want to be a leader or a direct participant? Rather than wait for things to happen, you could take steps to get everything moving. As you discover what makes you feel alive and connected with the world around you, you will be more able to navigate the best course for you.

A minor conflict with someone is a great rehearsal for dealing with a joint problem with someone closer. Aspects of both situations mirror each other and this helps you discover new things about yourself in terms of your relationships, your attitude and your feelings. Despite the anxiety or emotions being aroused you will be a stronger person as a result of today's personal revelations.

You might wish you could rewrite certain aspects of today and improve a tension building situation. In fact the way you are feeling you might want to write out some people in your life altogether. Before doing anything drastic, think of your future and what you see yourself doing. If you choose, you can bring about endings and conclusions but before doing so, be sure this is really what you want and you aren't just acting on a spontaneous whim.

A couple you are close to are going through some problems and they're trying to drag you into it. Don't take sides and refrain from making any comments. Once you put forward your views, someone will accuse you of defending or joining forces with the other. Keep well out of it and hopefully they will sort out their troubles on their own without this affecting the friendship you have with them, in any way.