Friends are complaining about your priorities. Right now, you want to spend all of your time with a youngster or lover who needs your help. And while your instincts are noble, there is something unbalanced about the situation. You need to connect with your friends when life becomes stressful, as they will help put things in perspective. Yes, you're dealing with some very serious issues now, but shutting everybody else out is not the solution. Strive for balance.

Beware of letting power go to your head. Just because you get a certain level of respect at work doesn't mean you'll get it at home. This is actually a good thing! Family members aren't impressed by your accomplishments at the office. They know the person who lurks behind the professional facade. By letting them tease you in an affectionate way, you'll stop identifying with your job. There's more to you than just a title and pay cheque.

You've overlooked some important details, and now the situation is blowing up in your face. Don't deny your role in this situation. It will only further damage your reputation. The fastest way to get back in the public's good graces is to issue a sincere apology, and then make concrete amends to the injured party. If this means issuing free products and services, so be it. People are very forgiving when they feel an honest attempt is being made to rectify the problem.

A great love life won't heal a troubled relationship. You and your lover emit some serious sparks in the bedroom, but if you can't have a civil conversation, the bond will suffer. Part of the problem is the two of you have utterly different priorities. You want to forge a financially secure future, while your other half yearns for a life of adventure. The two of you need to undergo counselling if you're going to breach this gap.

No matter how hard you try, you won't be able to change a loved one. You either have to resign yourself to your current situations or break ties altogether. The prospect of leaving your other half is painful, especially since you're such a loyal person. Still, all the anger and distrust is sapping your energy. Consider what you are missing by staying tethered to this rogue. By taking a small step towards your independence, you'll get an infusion of energy which lets you know you're doing the right thing.

A hidden enemy is undermining your progress at work, and you've got to smoke them out. Evaluate how a person's actions mirror their words. Follow up on whether or not a workmate has carried out their promises. Blind trust is no longer serving your interests. It's sad to have to be so suspicious, but you have to admit there is something suspicious going on behind the scenes. If you don't watch your back, nobody else will so keep your eyes and ears open. Release tension with brisk workouts after hours.

Lately, you've been having a great time, but it's time to put an end to the fun and games. There is serious work to be done, and if you keep neglecting it, others will suffer. Ask colleagues what you can do to relieve their burdens. Assume more household chores. If you're not sure how to perform certain jobs, ask to be shown. By demonstrating your care and concern for others, you'll become a more valued member of your community. Suddenly, work won't seem so odious anymore.

You can't contain your anger at an unfair practice any longer. It's time to confront the source of your misery, even at the risk of getting fired or being branded a troublemaker. Luckily, your family will give you their full support, helping you withstand the emotional and financial difficulties that result. Let your loved ones shower you with tender loving care. So often, you're the one who attends to everyone else's needs. It's time to reverse the trend.

Sometimes you have to trust your heart over your head. It's perfectly legitimate to take a class for pure pleasure. Nosy types may sneer at this practice, claiming it won't increase your earning potential. This may be true, but everything in your life doesn't have to be about money. Doing something for fun will make you a better employee, friend and partner. It will also stimulate your creativity in new and unexpected ways. Children haven't cornered the market on play.

Your bank balance doesn't reflect your worth as a person. Whether you make tons of money or struggle to make ends meet, it's important to develop a more balanced image. Look to your relationships for a more accurate measure of the esteem in which you are held. If your friendships seem superficial, make it your mission to build stronger bonds. Seek out people who share your values and support your dreams. There's more to life than just a pay packet.

You're on the defensive, which is a position you hate. Someone you know socially or professionally wants you to justify your behaviour, which feels incredibly unfair. At this point, you need to decide whether you're going to continue this relationship. If there's an element of truth to what your partner says, it may be best to put your union on the backburner while you get help. If the accusations are totally false, it's time to cut ties and forge an independent existence.

It's not possible to continue at your current pace. Something has got to give. Find a less demanding job, get childcare or ask for medical treatment. If a colleague is being abusive, you have to report the situation to your boss. It doesn't matter if you have proof; this situation needs to be documented. Part of the problem is you have kept this problem a secret. By bringing it to light, you'll get the emotional and practical help you need.