Devote your time and energy to solitary pursuits. Friends may claim to want your input, but this is just lip service. If you're out of a job, volunteer at an organisation that has personal meaning. Eventually, you could be offered a paying position. It's all about being patient. Of course, it's easier said than done, but it still remains true. If you are discouraged a dream hasn't worked out the way you wanted, give yourself a small treat. This will give you the courage to start anew.

Harbouring an unrealistic attitude towards work could get you in trouble. Right now, everybody has to go above and beyond the call of duty. Instead of objecting when you are given additional responsibilities, accept them with a smile. If you need more time to finish tasks, say so. There is room for compromise. Issuing an ultimatum, on the other hand, will lead to disaster. You get help from an unexpected source. People have a way of banding together now.

Trust your instincts with regard to a respected expert. There may be some problems with their approach. If you don't challenge their directives, nobody else will. Your sharp eye for detail could be rewarded with a promotion. In the past, your freewheeling style has been a liability. That's not the case now. Bask in this moment for as long as it lasts, but remember people will revert back to the old rules in a few days. A tiger doesn't change its stripes.

Go over bills with a fine toothed comb. You could be overcharged for some items. If you're swimming in debt, this may be a good time to consolidate your bills. You might also be able to negotiate a lower interest rate. If you're looking for work, you may want to explore opportunities with foreign based companies. Don't worry if you haven't had experience in a particular industry. Many of your skills will carry over to another job.

Putting a friend on a pedestal is a mistake. You've got to recognise their faults, as well as their strengths or you'll set them up for failure. If you're single, it may be because you have an artificially exalted view of relationships. Having a partner won't fill the emotional void inside you. The only way to satisfy your hunger is by working on a creative project. Jot down the opening lines of a story. Do a rough sketch of a picture.

Finding a good job could be difficult. Instead of looking for the perfect situation, seek one that will pay the bills. Nobody will think less of you for doing so. Who knows? You may even come to enjoy this position. The best way to find work is through connections. Spread the word among friends. A former colleague or family friend could alert you to a spot that's opened up in their company. Sometimes who you know is more important than what you know.

You could feel isolated today. It seems like everyone is leading a more exciting life than you. Instead of bemoaning your fate, focus on the tasks at hand. There is an art to living in the moment. Just when you're getting into the swing of things, you could be called away on a special job. You'll have to learn as you go. Fortunately, you're a quick learner. Getting some new skills under your belt will make you more desirable on the job market.

A household disaster might put a crimp in your plans. Pause to clean up this mess, as neglect will only compound it. An unrealistic relative may try to impose on you. Set a firm boundary, and get ready to deal with them if they cross it. Happily, your love life seems to be looking up. Someone could ask you out for coffee or confess a crush. If you're already in a relationship, this would be a nice time to go out for a romantic dinner.

If someone asks you for an honest opinion, give it. Pretending to like something will only lead to trouble. Of course, it's important to offer constructive criticism. Be as detailed as possible in recommending changes. Also make sure to praise certain elements of the job. That way, your comments won't seem petty or spiteful. A relative's spontaneous gesture of affection moves you beyond words. You may not realise it, but they think the world of you.

Be realistic about your financial situation. If you can't afford a certain lifestyle, be ready to downsize. The adjustment will be difficult at first, but you'll soon realise you didn't need all those extras. Fortunately, this is only temporary and learning to live within your means will serve you well for years to come. Good news regarding a broken appliance is music to your ears. It's a relief to know the repairs won't be as expensive as you feared.

There is no quick fix for a domestic problem. You've got to get to the source of the problem. Perhaps you've been ignoring a youngster's bad behaviour. Maybe you've been letting an older relative run roughshod over you. Whatever the situation, you've got to bring it out into the open. An unexpected bonus or raise gives you more freedom. Breaking free of a restrictive work arrangement gives you more time for your favourite activities.

You won't be able to escape problems through alcohol, fantasies, or sleep. Face the reality of an unpleasant situation, or it will spiral out of control. If you haven't been honest with friends and family, confess now. They'll be glad you reached out for help. Changing your appearance can give you a new lease on life. Changing your hairstyle or updating your wardrobe will give you a lift. You've always been a chameleon.