Arguing with friends cuts you to the quick. You look to your loved ones to reaffirm your beliefs. When they disagree, you start questioning these relationships. Stop expecting your loved ones to mirror your perceptions. Surrounding yourself with those who have the same expectations and reactions is limiting. Real growth only occurs when you can debate each other in a forceful or friendly way. Your mission shouldn't be converting others to your point of view; it should be to realise something you hadn't previously considered.

Becoming too preoccupied with practical concerns will undermine your zest for life. Be a little more daring. This could involve anything from trying different kinds of cuisine to becoming more assertive in love to applying for an intriguing job. Expanding your horizons will make you attract golden opportunities like a magnet. Doing the same thing day after day will have diminishing returns. Exchange your love of security for a sense of wonder. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Imposing your beliefs onto others will cause resentment. When it comes to family relationships, adopt a 'live and let live' philosophy. People have different ways of perceiving the world. By respecting everyone's rights, it will be easier to find common ground. You'll also become more receptive to ideas that can enhance your life. Instead of clinging to self-defeating ideas, you'll embrace concepts that help you fulfil your potential. Treat everyone as a potential teacher instead of a rival.

Using your personal charisma to manipulate others will cause lots of trouble. While you find an admirer's attention flattering, you shouldn't take advantage of it. When you need a favour, ask someone who isn't under your spell. It's possible you'll have to pay a professional to do some electrical work or plumbing repairs. Do you need help moving? Hire a relocation service. This will allow you to get the job done quickly without feeling obligated to helpers. The fee will be money well spent.

You hate wasting time arguing over silly matters, but it's important to lay your cards on the table. If you're inconvenienced or offended by a loved one's behaviour, bring it to their attention. Propose better ways to create a more loving atmosphere. Whether you don't like it when your amour flirts at parties or are hurt when a friend continually interrupts you, be honest. This will open the door to a spirited conversation that draws you closer. Prepare to hear some painful truths about yourself.

Resist the urge to control others. Although a colleague's habits annoy you, it's not your job to correct them. Make it your mission to be more tolerant. You could find yourself altering your thoughts to what you admire and respect about these people or you could just ignore their antics. The important thing is to take ownership of your feelings. Cultivating a sense of contentment will improve relationships with all your colleagues. People will start treating you like the most valued member of the team.

Making too many demands of your romantic partner will backfire. Instead of striving for a fairy-tale ideal, find satisfaction in how things are. Each time you are tempted to critique your partner, give them a sincere compliment instead. Do you want to enjoy more special occasions together? Set the tone. Give your amour little gifts. Become more physically affectionate. Compliment their appearance. Relieve them of chores. Model the behaviours you'd like to receive. Slowly but surely, the energy between you will become more joyful and spontaneous.

Yearning for the good old days is closing you off to fresh opportunities. Instead of surrounding yourself with photographs, put them into albums. Display artwork that evokes the feelings and lifestyle you want to have. Focus on making new friends. Take up a hobby, sign up for a course or join a team. This fresh energy will help you gain perspective about the past. Every phase of life is special, but no single time should overshadow the current moment. Seize the power of now.

You're inconsistent in love. If you can't make a commitment to someone you are already close to, be honest. You are too kind to break their heart. Are you in a relationship and feeling restless? Try channelling more energy into your union. Return to the early days of your courtship. Whatever you focus on expands. To feel more love and devotion, focus exclusively on your amour. The initial desire that first drew you together will come flooding back. This will be a wonderful rush.

Putting too much emphasis on material matters is a recipe for unhappiness. It's perfectly fine to want luxurious things, provided your desire isn't obsessive. Whenever you feel an emotional void, seek to fill it with meaningful relationships and enjoyable pursuits. Spending more time on the people and things you love will diminish the desire for creature comforts. Extravagant luxuries will be welcome but unnecessary. When you do attract more prosperity, you'll spend most it on experiences instead of physical goods.

Be on your best behaviour with officials, managers and people in authority. You may not realise it, but they judge your manners. If you are perceived as coarse, a plum assignment will be handed to someone else. It's also important to avoid profanity, even if those around you use it. By adhering to impeccable standards, you'll pass a test with flying colours. Pattern your behaviour after a polished professional who you admire. It's easy to put your faith in people who are kind, courteous and thoughtful.

It's time to raise your standards. Accepting outrageous behaviour opens the door to further abuses. Don't be afraid to establish some boundaries, even if it means cutting certain people out of your life. The same standard applies for work. When you settle for toxic professional situations, it becomes impossible to attract healthy work opportunities. Become more assertive about what you not only want, but also expect from others. You'll notice people being much more respectful towards you. Best of all, your self-esteem will soar.