Trying to win the approval of friends will just end in tears. You're better off following your own star and although you may have to give up some of your wanton ways in order to reach your new goal, the sacrifice will seem minimal. Some people will feel threatened by your goal, but only because they lack your courage. By all means, stay in touch with your nearest and dearest, but don't force relationships that fall by the wayside.

Your family may not approve of recent choices, but it just can't be helped. If you're attracted to someone who doesn't seem respectable, it could be because you're rebelling against your relatives' snobbish tendencies. Before you take this romance any further, consider whether it could put you in danger. It's a different story if you feel genuine affection for this person as there's a distinct possibility this affair is really being fuelled by defiance. Be honest with yourself.

Just because someone isn't educated or cultured doesn't mean they're stupid. You can't put a price on common sense. If someone who is not very sophisticated gives you advice, you would be wise to take it. It's also possible a friend will ask you to read a story or article they've written and while you may not have high hopes in their abilities, you should at least take the time to review the work.

Sex and money could be the source of terrible arguments. The root of these fights is a power struggle. It may feel as though one of you doesn't appear to have enough freedom. Rather than trying to strive for supremacy, work on a more equitable arrangement. Creating a pleasant work routine can also take the strain off your relationship. You'll feel less prone to quarrel if you're engaged in projects that draw on your creative talents.

You may not be getting the support you expected from a romantic or business partner. This is really bewildering, since you've always been eager to help this person during times of trial. If you're going to overcome this problem, you'll have to rely on your own strength. Take your cues from a child who has always inspired you. Your friend may be young in years, but their ability to make the best of a bad situation is a sign of profound wisdom.

Nerves could make it difficult to relax and enjoy yourself today. It's important to rid your mind of nagging fears with no basis in reality. The best way to do this is to carefully monitor your thoughts. Each time you catch your mind veering towards negative waters, shift your focus. The effort will feel terrific at first, but it will become second nature with practice. If you need to discuss your worries, seek a sympathetic relative who makes you laugh.

These days, it feels like everybody is having fun but you and while that's true to a certain extent, this situation won't be permanent. This is simply your time to buckle down and work hard. Don't let irresponsible friends try to lure you away from an important project. A lot of people are counting on you to do a good job. If you let your duties fall by the wayside, your reputation will suffer. A neighbour's encouragement gives you renewed strength.

Having a fulfilling career is no substitute for a happy personal life and although you shield your privacy like a tiger, you can't help but wish you had someone to share your deepest secrets and thoughts. Maybe you feel as though you don't have the capacity for an intimate relationship right now. Things can change, provided you're willing to make yourself vulnerable. Admit a deep seated fear to a person who has caught your fancy.

You've never been content to rest on your laurels. Some people don't approve of your ambition. They think you should be content with what you've got although you could never be content staying in one place. You've always got to be on the move. Wanting something different isn't a rejection of your origins. It's simply an extension of your adventurous personality. Don't bother to defend your actions.

Buying your way to happiness is an exercise in despair. For although you have impeccable taste, your beautiful things won't satisfy your craving for love. If you feel frightened or vulnerable, tell a compassionate friend you'll continue to flounder in the dark alone. The effort of maintaining a strong image is starting to wear on your nerves. It's also preventing you from enjoying the close relationships that can help you withstand stress. Come down off that pedestal of yours.

It's important to be practical with regard to your expectations of others. The truth is a lover or business partner may not have the capacity to help you with a vital chore. Instead of setting this person up for failure, you need to tackle this job by yourself. If that's not possible, you should hire someone who specialises in this type of work. It's better to pay to get the job done right than throw your relationship into turmoil.

Secret rivals could be undermining your progress at work. If you wonder why it's been hard to make headway with your boss, it could be because of a vicious whispering campaign. The best way to combat this kind of problem is to arrange an audience with your boss. Take this opportunity to express the real you. Once your employer sees these rumours have no basis in reality, you'll get assignments in keeping with your creative talent.