A painful past experience could prompt you to lash out against a business or romantic partner. You're determined never to be vulnerable again. The problem with this attitude is the way it cuts you off from intimacy. Consider whether the person in question has really committed a serious transgression. A heart to heart talk can smooth over the rough patches in your relationship. Don't be afraid to put your heart on the line. Have courage; things have changed since you were first hurt.

Slow and steady wins the race. You may feel pressured to complete tasks in record time, but you could make mistakes if you cut corners. If a colleague tries to tighten the screws, tell them to back off in no uncertain terms. It's also important to go easy on your body. Throwing yourself into an intense exercise routine could result in a pulled muscle or torn ligament. Besides, taking a gradual approach to fitness will be more successful.

Be careful about trusting prized possessions with a child or amour, or theft could result. It's not that your loved one will rob you; it's just because this person may not be very vigilant about protecting your property. Taking out an insurance policy is probably a good idea. It's also wise to take pictures of your home and keep them in a safe deposit box. That way, if you do experience a loss, you'll have a visual document of exactly what you own.

You want things done your way, but that may not be possible. Bullying a relative or roommate will only compound the problem. If somebody offers to help you, it will be given on their terms, not yours. At some point, you may decide it's just easier to tackle this job alone. Don't get angry and self righteous, though. Sometimes you've got to decide between lowering your expectations or taking on more responsibility.

You may be your own worst enemy, putting yourself in the path of danger just for the sake of a thrill. Before you gamble with your possessions or health, consider how your behaviour will affect others. Ultimately, your loved ones will have to pay the price for your foolhardy behaviour. This realisation may not sit well with you, but it's the truth. Maybe your desire to walk on the wild side is rooted in angry feelings about limits imposed on you.

Getting carried away by a group's decision could ultimately backfire. Before you do anything rash, consider whether the proposed plan runs contrary to your principles. If it does, you need to back out gracefully. Yes, some people will express scorn for your cowardly behaviour, but you'll be the one laughing when these folks are forced to deal with the consequences. While it's been fun to have the support and approval of these people, they don't have your interests at heart.

Contradicting an authority figure could get you in hot water. You feel very strongly that the organisation is going in the wrong direction. After saying your piece, it may be necessary for you to break away from this group or you could be forced to endure some humiliating punishments. Then again, it's possible that the powers that be will eventually be dismissed for their irresponsible actions. If you think this is the case, speak up and be willing to put up with short term hassles.

A desire to bring about cultural change could prompt you to do something extreme. These actions could win you a few hidden enemies. Challenging the status quo is never an easy business. It often puts stress on old friendships and prompts arguments with people from all walks of life. If you're willing to make personal sacrifices for the sake of this mission, proceed as planned. Be prepared to have some people turn against you.

Acting on impulse may not be the best idea right now. A close friend could be negatively impacted by this decision. This is especially true if you hook up with somebody your pal adores. At times like these, you need to remember your attitude towards making love isn't shared by others. You might see this encounter as having fun, while your friend views it as the ultimate betrayal. The momentary pleasure may not be worth it.

A close partnership is being tested and it's up to you to keep a cool head. Be very careful about making public statements about your associate, even if they are in jest. The person in question is very sensitive, and may not appreciate jokes about their weak points. If you do happen to make a blunder, offer an immediate and sincere apology. Be ready to be raked over the coals. Devise a strategy so this kind of slip never happens again.

A pushy colleague is getting on your nerves and you're tired of having to go out of your way to accommodate them. Instead of confronting this person, you may want to complain to human resources. If that's not an option, take your colleague to lunch and share your concerns in a straightforward but respectful way. The more level headed you are, the more difficult it will be to argue with you. Fortunately, you're not the type to get drawn into emotional arguments.

Children may be very hard to control today. It seems like they're bursting with energy. Don't tempt fate and take the kids to a store, museum, or restaurant. Let them burn off steam at a park. If anybody challenges your authority, be prepared to enforce a punishment. Nobody will take you seriously unless they see you're willing to back up words with actions. This can be difficult for a soft hearted character like you, but it's better than letting them run wild.