Having a secret source of pleasure gives you a lift. You usually take great pride in being forthright. Recently this has changed. You've developed a crush or taken up a hobby without telling anybody else about it. This gives you something to anticipate as the day draws to a close. It also lends a healthy glow that is most attractive. Don't be surprised when people who were once indifferent to your charms become captivated. You're finally accessing your inner sex symbol.

Resist the urge to criticise a friend's taste. What looks like a fashion disaster could quickly and easily turn out to be a popular trend. Besides, there are more important things to take into account than looks. Pause to savour all the good times you've had together. Their kindness, compassion and sympathy have brought you through some pretty dark times. Keep your eyes open for a special gift that symbolises your friendship. Choose something you know they'll appreciate, rather than a bauble that is more reflective of your sensibilities.

Don't let depression rear its ugly head. You can overcome sadness by forcing yourself to have fun. This sounds like a paradox, but it's true. Staying in bed with the covers over your head will just cause negative emotions to spiral out of control. Go for a walk, call up a cheerful friend, or visit a pet store. Listen to uplifting songs or watch a funny movie. Pretty soon, you'll forget why life seemed so dismal and your optimism will come flooding back.

The urge to merge is powerful. Devote the entire day to another person's pleasure. Take your best friend out to a fancy restaurant or go for a spa treatment with your lover. Choose an activity that is tailored to your partner's needs. If this means trying something new, so be it. It will be reassuring to have your companion nearby. If you're thinking about taking an advanced class, choose one that resonates with your spiritual side. There's more to life than toil and trouble.

It's time to take the pressure off. Put aside any thoughts of duties and chores and opt for more relaxing activities instead. Onlookers may cluck their tongues, but that's only because they are jealous. Sometimes you have to step away from the list of things to do and enjoy life instead. If you're in a relationship, sneak away to a secluded spot with your amour. Spend some quality time together, just the two of you. You're not the type who can live without physical affection for long.

There's no reason you should feel compelled to attend a boring get together. Your free time is valuable. Spend it on something, or someone, you enjoy. Tongues may wag about your decision to skip a friend or relative's gathering or going away party. While everyone else is gossiping, you'll be busy having fun. When is the last time you took a road trip, visited a bookstore, or treated yourself to a lovely, lazy lunch? Spoil yourself a little. This will make it easier to cope with petty people.

If you've been suffering from anxiety, go out and get some gentle exercise. Swimming, running, walking, any activity that gets your blood flowing will be good for you now. You'll be amazed at how much more cheerful you feel after just moving your body a little. Fear can be paralysing for you. By refusing to stay glued to one spot, you'll drive away nervous energy. A stimulating conversation with an artist makes you more confident about an idea for a creative project. Pick up a pen or paintbrush and get to work.

At long last, you're able to lighten up a little. Problems that seemed insurmountable now feel insignificant. Someone who was wearing on your last nerve seems harmless. Capitalise on your upbeat mood by taking a risk. Ask someone on a date. Submit your creative work for review. Enter a contest. Sign up for a marathon. Pushing the envelope makes you feel more alive. It also balances your perspective. You can put your possessions on the line, but you'll never lose your dignity.

Your spontaneity goes a long way towards helping a gloomy relative. Reach out to a family member who has experienced a string of disappointments. Whisk them away on a fun outing to the zoo or sports arena. Don't let their gloomy observations undercut your enthusiasm. Gradually, your upbeat attitude will win the day and the two of you will have a marvellous time. You have the power to heal other people's pain. This knowledge makes you feel better about some personal setbacks. Keep the good energy flowing.

Soften your approach to a wallflower. You have a magnetic personality that can be quite intimidating, especially to newcomers. By toning it down just a bit, you'll make inroads with someone who is worth your time. They'll admire your accomplishments, while you'll be impressed by their creative ability. Together, you will balance each other quite nicely. Beware of making sarcastic jokes to your new friend. Their thin skin can't withstand your abrasive brand of humour. Oh, well; nobody is perfect.

At last, you'll be able to work at your own pace, without any supervision. If there's anything you can't stand, it's being micromanaged. Being given a free hand allows your imagination to run wild. It's much easier to develop inventive solutions when you're going solo. In the past, cautionary types drove you to distraction with all their hand wringing. If you develop a great concept that can be marketed, go ahead and patent it. This could be your ticket to an early retirement.

Stop worrying what other people think of you. Make a list of your favourite qualities instead. You are an extremely loving and lovable person. Nobody is perfect and if they were, such a paragon would be completely insufferable. One of your greatest gifts is your imagination. Use it to create something beautiful. So many people wish they could possess your talent. Take pride in the many things you do well and your shortcomings won't seem so important.