Financial security will take some pressure off other problems, but it won't solve all your hassles. What you must do is take a softer approach to hard edged difficulties, This is essential in a love affair although not so easy for a tough cookie like you, but it's crucial to your happiness. Sit down together and discuss your feelings Friday.

You know your strengths and weaknesses, which makes you a formidable foe. Although one of your rivals is undoubtedly talented, they lack a sense of perspective. Use this, their Achilles Heel, to your advantage at all times, especially when it comes to making more money. Only reasonable offers will be met so only ask what you need, not a penny more or less.

Lending your efforts to a charitable cause can be more helpful than a donation. You have an deep need to be connected to others. If you feel as though you're adrift, get involved with a worthy cause or enhance a natural skill. You'll be amazed how many people share similar concerns. Helping others is a way of coping with your own world.

You're suspicious of someone's offer of help. Why is it so hard for you to believe that people want to do nice things for you? Perhaps it's because you feel unworthy of assistance. The sooner you get over this illusion, the easier it will be for you to enjoy warm relationships. You get out of life what you put into it.

Of course you'll fall behind if you're disorganised. Clear your world of unnecessary clutter and make a list of things to do. You'll be less overwhelmed when you have a clear set of priorities. Someone with your tremendous verve always risks taking on too much. But you'll find you are more efficient and effective once you've overhauled your life.

Expanding your personal repertoire only helps you to go further, so acquire more skills or develop a latent interest. Don't be discouraged by others, they're only afraid you'll outgrow them. Protect your own interests as it's you that matters most. If a relationship is solid, they will survive any improvements you make. Have faith in your potential.

Your diplomacy is a boon when a sensitive soul in your social circle gets overly defensive. You are better equipped than most to handle this, because you've suffered similar rejections in the past. It's time for you and them to take a long hard look at your social life and ask yourself if you've outstayed your welcome - isn't it time to move on?

Your ability to see through a person's cunning and scheming behaviour helps you avert disaster. Don't let anyone get away with shabby excuses. Until you hold them accountable, your joint partnership or plans will be forever stalled. You don't have to resort to shouting to get what you want. Simply make good on your threats and call no-one bluff.

Demand payment for what you have done or people will continue to take advantage of you. Hammer out the details of a contract or agreement before you start work, or you could get caught with your pants down. Sign legal forms, submit invoices and keep receipts. it might be a bind but it could save you a headache which you don't need.

The smallest things the world has to offer, gives you the greatest pleasure; if only life could always be like this. You're starting to see how your attitude affects your luck. When you're open, giving and loving, things go your way. When you're pessimistic, angry and discouraged, troubles will mount. So which route are you going to take now?

Contrary to what a depressing person might say, good deeds are always rewarded. Even if you perform a kind service for an ungrateful soul, the fates will improve your life in other areas. Besides, you've nothing to lose by doing something nice. Do something artistic or musical to nurture your own soul, don't forget you need time to relax and rest.

Unless you get away for a well deserved break, your creativity could start to wane. Everyday duties are starting to make you feel trapped and irritable. There's no harm in enjoying a little bit of what you fancy instead of the usual dull grind. You don't need to do anything special just so long as you pamper yourself in whatever way indulges your senses.