Just because you have the power to make things go your way, doesn't mean you should wield it. When in doubt, err on the side of the group's best interests. This may mean turning down a raise or deferring to your colleagues' decision. Contrary to popular opinion, people have greater respect for authority figures who demonstrate flexibility. If you play your cards right, you'll make some allies among your colleagues. Feel restless? Get involved with a charitable cause.

A narrow minded attitude could cut you off from valuable experiences. Put your own beliefs on the back burner today so you can entertain other viewpoints. For all you know, your faith could grow even deeper as a result of this exercise. You will be transformed and be more accepting of others' differences will make you a happier, healthier human being. It will also enable you to make some interesting friends. Variety is the spice of life.

Selfish behaviour is starting to get you down. You're tired of having to beg for favours all of the time. After all, you give freely when you are able to. Why can't everybody else? At times like these, it's pointless to dwell on the mysteries of human behaviour. You're better off focusing on activities that give you pleasure. Learning a foreign language or taking up a musical instrument could prove rewarding. Fortunately, you're a very quick learner.

Don't take your loved ones for granted today. Be sure to give thanks to everyone who makes your life easier, whether it's your romantic partner or a bus driver or the person who makes your coffee each morning. The more appreciative you are of others, the more gracious they will be towards you. You've got great instincts when it comes to long term investments. This would be a good time to create a budget. You might also aim to make a move on someone you fancy.

Taking a break while everybody else is working hard will do some severe damage to your relationships. You may not think you need these people, but you will quickly change your tune in a few weeks' time. Err on the side of caution and do your part. Yes, it's tempting to sneak away with the one you love. No amount of stolen kisses will reconcile your friends and family to the fact you left them to their own devices at this critical juncture.

Indulging your sensual side seems long overdue. Unfortunately, you don't have a lot of extra money to spend on creature comforts. This could make you angry and resentful. Why is it that the people who most need a holiday never have the funds to take one? Fortunately, you have other options at your disposal. Get into the habit of putting an hour aside for your own pleasure. Don't let anyone impinge on this sacred time. This will be the greatest gift you'll ever give yourself.

It may be easier to ignore a domestic problem in the short term, but just wait until it blossoms into a full blown fiasco. A relative or roommate who has been acting up must be confronted. You may have to issue an ultimatum and - what's worse - be willing to live by it. That's not very easy for a laid back character like you. All you want is for everyone to love one another. Unfortunately, this won't possible if your friend keeps behaving like a bore.

Your intellectual gifts are undeniably strong but it's important not to lord them over everyone else. A sibling or neighbour who isn't quick on the uptake may grow to resent your impatient sighs. Try cultivating patience. After all, you have your weak points, too. Spending a quiet afternoon with your nearest and dearest will work like a healing balm on your soul. It's been a long while since you let down your defences with people you trust.

Beware of wasting valuable time and resources on undeserving people. You've always had an even handed approach to people, offering help regardless of who asks for it. Now you're starting to feel the consequences of this stance. There simply isn't enough good will to go around - not if you're going to be kind to yourself in the process. It's time to unload some 'friends' who have taken advantage of your generosity in the past.

While it's undeniable you are talented, this doesn't mean you are irreplaceable. Keep this in mind before asking for a raise, promotion, or special favour. If you overreach your grasp, you could be left without a job. The best way to get in your employer's good graces is to do work beyond the scope of your official job description. The more willing and cheerful you are, the more valued you will be by your superiors. Your work will become less odious, too.

Beware of falling prey to self pity. While it's true you've suffered a recent series of disappointments, that doesn't give you license to feel sorry for yourself. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on or you could miss a golden opportunity. Taking charge of a charitable organisation will give you a renewed sense of purpose. Some cynics will say you're setting yourself up for another defeat, but they are wrong. This time, you've got the stars on your side.

These days, it feels like who you know is more important than what you know. This could prompt you to make friends with people who you'd ordinarily avoid like the plague. Resist temptation and stay close to your nearest and dearest. They'll help you find your niche. You're not the type of person who can fake affection, anyway. Trust your instincts with regard to a creative project. It will put you on the path to success, even though it's an unusual concept.